BuildingBridges222 Posted April 26, 2014 Posted April 26, 2014 I'm going to try keep this as short as I can, but I can't guarantee the length. To cut it short I dated a girl this time last year, we fell completely in love and I can tell there was a strong connection, however I was lacking in expressing my feelings to her for some time. (Insecurity issues, at this time I was going through a rough patch) We progressively got better but then broke up in October, due to some rumor going around trust between us withered, after breaking up we NC'd for about 4 months. In February after we started having basic conversation, we thought it was time to talk about our breakup to resolve some issues and "see where it goes from there". Long story short; she found out her friend started rumors about us and tried convincing her I was cheating on her behind her back, of which I never did. She said she regretted breaking up with me and she's open to giving us another chance, or as she said to a friend: "now I know the truth I do regret ending it with him and I do really like him, but like I said I'm just not ready at the moment." Around mid-March we had a close shave, I told her I liked her and things grew. But she became stressed with how much revision she has to go through, then just said "now isn't a good time" and chose to leave it there, the next few nights I saw she was posting a lot of depressing statuses around the "I'm such an idiot" vibe. She's hinted she'll try to see me again in the summer, but we have some odd miscommunication issues at the moment. And to top it off, I know I'm not really first on the list. I'm already dating other girls and being myself, but I do feel that there is a good chance for a reconciliation. We're in LC at the moment, but I'm just trying to collect together a plan on how I should approach this. Understandably she's got a lot going on at the moment, but I do feel there is a good chance once she's over her exams. I know I'm going to get the "Move on" posts, but I'm looking for that one that says hold on, because there is a chance. I'm not running after her, I have a backbone, and I do stand my ground to her when appropriate.
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