Calhoun Posted April 26, 2014 Posted April 26, 2014 (edited) My ex fiancé and myself had a fantastic relationship about a year-1/2 ago. Due to our jobs, we had to relocate and decided to get engaged, move to the same city, and fully commit to one another. When doing this, it sped things up way too quickly for me, and brought a lot of stress and pressure that was not needed at the time. I decided to call things off, and couldn't help but be angry at the situation we fell into. It forced so many of our insecurities out on one another. It's been over a year since we broke, and about 4 months since we last spoke. This past weekend I had a friend visit me, who we are mutually friends with. While he was visiting, she apparently went out of her way to give him something to give to me during his visit... I'm not sure what this means!? Why even send me anything if you are done, and why do it through a mutual friend? Does this not seem like attention seeking behavior? This one thing has me pissed, because now I can't stop thinking about her again, and it's driving me mad. It's freaking mind games, and she should woman up and tell me if she is wanting to chat again, right?? Any suggestions???? Help from Texas Edited April 26, 2014 by Calhoun
FredJones80 Posted April 26, 2014 Posted April 26, 2014 What was the "thing"? important? non-important.
Author Calhoun Posted April 26, 2014 Author Posted April 26, 2014 (edited) When we were engaged and about to move in together, my grandparents gave her their house keys, just in case. Not really important now, I guess holding on to it could bring back memories for her. Since she lives multiple states away it's not like she would ever sneak in or something, and I never asked for them back or even worried about that. But why now, and why do it when I'm going on vacation with a good guy friend of mine? Edited April 26, 2014 by Calhoun
Author Calhoun Posted April 26, 2014 Author Posted April 26, 2014 Possibly, but if you were done with someone. Then why even go through the trouble and have my friends deliver it to me? I guess at that point if a girl hasn't even asked for her keys back, I'm just throwing it out. Just me though. So crazy how a simple object can bring back so much
FredJones80 Posted April 26, 2014 Posted April 26, 2014 I guess keys seem like an important thing, even though she is far away. To me it would be like throwing someone's medication away if you knew they might need it. I guess it depends how amicable the ended was, big fight, hates your guts? then maybe just throw them out, if there were other reasons or less resentment then maybe just trying to do the right thing. It seems we all read in to the tiniest things, wondering if there is another meaning. Perhaps it is what it is, just returning some keys you/your family may need when the opportunity arose..
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