winterpast Posted April 26, 2014 Posted April 26, 2014 I did everything I was asked to do to make him happy. I stopped calling him, didn't text him, didn't ask when he was coming home, whatever it was I stopped doing it. He tells me one day that everything is great and then he gives be a night like tonight. He spends 12am-3am telling me how I "act like" he's not good enough and how I attack him with snide comments. I don't "care enough" that he has to get up at 4am and work all day or "care enough" that he's in constant pain. Even though I can't take the pain away and I try to help him, it's not enough because I'm not doing more to make it better. I burst into tears during this whole ordeal and he just says "why are you getting emotional" and gets annoyed. Want to know what started this whole thing? I asked him if he wanted to have sex and he said no. Then he decided that I was being a b*tch because I wanted to "take care" of myself since he wasn't interested. This is more of a vent than anything. I know what needs to happen...
Poppyolive Posted April 26, 2014 Posted April 26, 2014 Arrrhhhhhhh frustrating. I'm sorry you're going through this. It must completely suck your energy & zest. Tell yourself its his issue and nothing to do with you. it's obvious he's mentality unwell and his processing of things is off. I don't know your back story. Please take care if your heart and do something just for you today. Something real special. Hugs
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