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So I posted about a bit of this before so this is whats going on now.

 

I was introduced to this girl last weekend from an old friend of mine that I used to hang out with. She was cute and very friendly, I started to chat her up, but we were at a bar so it wasn't easy. Later in the night I asked for her number and told her we might go to karaoke the next night. She gave me her number and asked me to msg her so she could get mine. She left early that night so she said bye gave me a hug, as well as another friend of mine that was with me and I msged her to tell her to have a safe trip, and she replied later that she was home safe and that hopefully she will get to see me tomorrow.

 

Next day we went to karaoke, she hugged me again and she sat beside me didnt mind that we were close and a few times we brushed up against each other and she didn't mind or pull away. I did not pick up on this but she was telling me she was cold and I didn't clue in to give her my jacket. After we went home and she hugged me again. I msged her thanking her for coming out, and hope to see her again. She msged back that she had fun. After I tried to talk to her by text, she was slow to reply, and finally I asked her if she was busy weds night, she took a long time but finally replied saying she was busy and asked why. I told her I wanted to see if she wanted to go for coffee or something, she took a few hours but finally replied to say how about thursday instead, and we arranged for coffee later that day.

 

We ended up talking for 3 hours, about everything, about ourselves hobbies, and even got a bit into what kinda guys she would be into. After we realized it was 3 hours we ended out coffee meet up, and I felt like our goodbye dragged a bit, we said good bye and said we should do it again and she enjoyed learning more about me. She gave me a hug and we went our ways.

 

I msged her thanking her for a fun evening and to hopefully do it agian sometime, and she also said she had a good time.

 

So after reading this, what do you think? should I ask for a second more "real" date? is she interested? Opinions would be great thanks!

 

Also, is it weird that she never starts a text? Is that common for girls?

 

I havent msged her since then so its been about a day. I didn't want to seem to needy, and so i left it. but i def wnat to get to know her and I am def interested. I've been in a LTR for a long time until about 5 months ago so I am pretty rusty, I don't want to mess it up.

Edited by lionheart153
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