Owl Posted April 28, 2014 Posted April 28, 2014 An "anonymous" message via FB??? I'd think that most folks would have their privacy settings high enough that this would be unlikely to get through. A message out of the blue from some completely unidentifiable source? Frankly, I don't know that I would believe it, although given what I've been through in the past, I might still go ahead and take some steps to verify things on my own. But given the chance that it could have come from any random whackdoodle in the internet as just some blind message sent out to thousands of pages...I'm not sure how serious I'd take it. Anyone who cared enough about me to warn me would contact me directly. If an OW/OM wanted to 'out' the affair this way...I'd recommend that they not do so anonymously. If they're a friend of the BS...then a friend shouldn't do this anonymously. 2
gettingstronger Posted April 28, 2014 Posted April 28, 2014 Our OW also denied any of the anon bull was her too.
drifter777 Posted April 28, 2014 Posted April 28, 2014 If your spouse was cheating and your "radar" was up; would you take an anonymous FB message that your spouse was cheating seriously? Or, would you simply disregard it? I would take it seriously. What this does is confirm your gut feeling - which was probably right to being with.
forbidden_love Posted April 29, 2014 Posted April 29, 2014 Our OW also denied any of the anon bull was her too. Strangely enough i told her to her face! I think the anon may have been mms daughter so never presume! And y would i lie on here? It's a shame that she thought it was me as their relationship with the daughter went downhill also strangely enough,
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