Startagain Posted April 25, 2014 Posted April 25, 2014 Hi All Never posted like this before . Ill keep it sweet. I know im in the right place here for honest responses. I met a girl in work 2 years ago and we hit it off . Fell madly for each other and became an item. Within the first 6 months she was still going out with her BF of 4 years dumped him and continued with me. As soon as she dumped him things changed. She's could not leave him alone, she was always on chat , email FB , with him . Seeing him on some wkds (As mates ) Like a fool i trusted her . then the fights came usually over no communication or not willing to commit on her part. So basically for a year and a half we worked it out and fought non stop which was draining. She would walk out saying she dosint love me anymore and come back 3-4 days later with lest work it out. This went on for months and months make up and break . December gone new years eve we broke up where we said ok lets take it back and see if we can fix this . For four months we grew more distant well I did but still hooking up for Sex . Eventually 2 weeks ago I had enough , I wrote her a letter saying that I cant trust her as a stable partner anymore . which is true as she could walk out in 6 months time as shes unsure about things. This was one of those relationships where I gave it my all and loved her so much. After 2 weeks NC from us both I feel so sad that shes not around any more . I should be happy that I called it a day but I still love her. and cannot go back with her even if she changes cos deep down I cant never really trust her . Im i going insane ?? Thanks everybody
Strength in Healing Posted April 25, 2014 Posted April 25, 2014 No, you chose the correct path, brother. You can't trust her. What everyone fails to realize, is if they're willing to do it WITH you, they're willing to do it TO YOU. Don't look back, it can't be saved. Don't run from the pain, run towards it. You will come out at the end of the tunnel stronger, and smarter. For God's sake though, find a single girl next time.
Author Startagain Posted April 26, 2014 Author Posted April 26, 2014 Thanks man. That was a roller coaster . Wise words words mate , thanks again
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