Avril Wright Posted April 25, 2014 Posted April 25, 2014 okay so this is going to be a long story but i'll try to make it as short as possible. basically a while ago me and this guy(lets say his name was james) were soo close and we really wanted to take things further but we kept it a secret and told nobody as we were in a group of close friends we had a really good relationship and ive always liked him. one day my best friend told me she liked him and this just confirmed i couldnt do anything with him once everyone knew she liked him because its not worth losing her. after a while she left our group of friends and i started dating another guy from the group as at that time it was the right thing to do. i've always been texting james and i knew we would always be more than just friends but the problem was he was best friends with my boyfriend. now 7 months later, james told me that i have to pick between the two of them and i have no idea what i should do. i love both of them a lot and dont want to lose either of them! if i stay with my boyfriend it would be the safest option but if i went for james it would be a risk and we would have to be sneaking around for a while as no one could know also i wouldnt be able to see any of my other friends from the group as they are better friends with my boyfriend than me. should i take the risk or not? i reaaalllyy like james but i still do like my boyfriend a lot but we fight over really stupid things and it gets boring.. please answer ASAP
stillafool Posted April 25, 2014 Posted April 25, 2014 Tell your bf the truth that you like James and won't be dating him anymore. Always be honest and let the chips fall where they may. 1
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