StringsAttached Posted April 25, 2014 Posted April 25, 2014 She was the first girl I loved, and I loved her more than myself at one point, I couldn't picture my future without this girl and thought we'd get married and have kids. We broke up a year ago and looking back I made some of most trivial decisions of my life in the period that followed. If anything, it was my ego getting destroyed that resulted in my delayed healing I mean, she was the first girl to reject me, ever. I tried reconciling (she broke up with me twice) and you can read my other threads and piece it together and even went so low as accepting her friendship in hopes that we could get back together one day (PATHETIC). All I have to say is that the advice given are these forums is gold. Not even silver. It's Diamond encrusted gold. I never thought i'd reach this stage of healing, ever. NC has given me back my life and i'm talking full-blown NC. Not a peep, deleted/blocked and no stalking whatsoever, I was the happiest guy in the world before I met her and am 85% back to being that person. The universe is with you, not against you. You're not some abomination or product of an imperfect existence. **** happens. The best advice anyone ever gave me was to man the f*** up. They created their account just to put that out there. Your ex broke your heart (in some cases treated you like ****). Don't give them any more power... It's time to focus on you. 16
Joangel Posted April 27, 2014 Posted April 27, 2014 Happy to hear you found yourself again. I know it's not easy. I stumbled on this website just yesterday and I am already hooked. I have had some great insight on topics I have been struggling with. As for you, you hold the key to your own happiness. Don't let anyone take that key away from you. 1
this2shallpass Posted May 13, 2014 Posted May 13, 2014 So true. I have to remember how s***** he treated me so many times, and how he dealt with it all towards the end and ended it with me. Why would I want such a guy? Someone who are able to do that to me and hurt me thaat much. It WOULD happen again. Good riddance I should think, and I really dont believe any girl after him will get a better treatment, cause its his personality. and NOT me.. Felt good writing that lol. But I am still an emotional wreck and misses him terribly and want him to contact me..ughh.. its cause of the way he ended it and how mean he was, thats a big part I think.
elseaacych Posted May 13, 2014 Posted May 13, 2014 Read this post the day you posted it. Read it again today. Still good, still true. There is a light at the end of the tunnel and it is most likely not an oncoming train. 2
Kansas87 Posted May 14, 2014 Posted May 14, 2014 The universe is with you, not against you. You're not some abomination or product of an imperfect existence. **** happens. Thank you for this. I needed it. 1
greenbee81 Posted May 14, 2014 Posted May 14, 2014 Great thread! I also went cold turkey and stopped everything. Blocked call and emails. We never did Facebook so lucky for that. She hasn't sent anything in 4 days now, I feel everyday will be easier. Whenever I get that sad feeling I just come here and feel better already. 1
Alcatraz Posted May 14, 2014 Posted May 14, 2014 Right now it doesn't feel like it's getting any better. Some hours in the day I feel positive but mainly I'm back to square one. I wish I could wake up from this nightmare. 1
greenbee81 Posted May 14, 2014 Posted May 14, 2014 Right now it doesn't feel like it's getting any better. Some hours in the day I feel positive but mainly I'm back to square one. I wish I could wake up from this nightmare. Be strong man, many of us were there too. 1
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