bobby326 Posted April 25, 2014 Posted April 25, 2014 As always, thanks for replies and advice guys, much appreciated. So I'm in a situation where I'm dating 2 women, one I met a few months ago, we see each other several times a week and talk a lot but when we had the "where is this going" talk about a month ago she said she was not ready for a relationship or commitment and wanted to keep things casual. Btw we are both in our late 20s and we do sleep together. Fast forward to now, I met a girl a few weeks ago, have been on a few dates, we really hit it off, have slept together, I'm going out with her again tonight. Last night I was hanging out with the other girl and she kept asking what I was doing tonight, I told her I was getting dinner with a friend, she wanted more details so I straight up told her I'm going on a date and have been on a few with this girl. She didn't seem mad but seemed like it bothered her, I just brought up the fact that she wanted to keep things casual and that I'm single and that she can see other people too. She said that she doesint want to see other people and hasn't, like I said it seemed like it bothered her but she didn't seem mad. I told her I want to continue to see her and really like her and she told me the same, we ended up messing around and then I went home. She seemed fine, I texted her this morning telling her I had a good time and she always responds, she hasn't and that was a few hours ago. To my questions, should I tell this new girl that I have been seeing the other girl and will probably continue to see her as i just want to see what's out there or should i wait and see if it turns into anything more serious? Should I feel bad about what I'm doing? I was honest and up front with her and didn't hide anything, I do feel kind of guilty seeing/sleeping with two different women as I have almost always been in long term exclusive relationships, at this time in my life (I'm 27,got out of a 4 1/2 year relationship 9 months ago) I almost feel like this is good for me. Anyway, your thoughts, comments, criticism etc is appreciated.
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