Medium.Lumo Posted April 25, 2014 Posted April 25, 2014 I have a complicated friendship with a single mom. She doesn't like my girlfriend even though they were friends before we started dating. She wanted me to go to the zoo with her and her daughter tomorrow which I said might be possible depending if my girlfriend and I were going down to her grandparents house by the lake this weekend So I had to cancel on her yesterday and she freaked out. Told me that my girl is only interested in me because my family has more money than hers and is just using me for my car and apartment etc. She just basically went nuts. I was actually attracted to her but she always refused my advances. Now she is acting jealous. What is going on?
Author Medium.Lumo Posted April 25, 2014 Author Posted April 25, 2014 She has eyes and ears. ...? Sorry, I don't understand. You mean she heard this from a 3rd party? But eyes?
Emilia Posted April 25, 2014 Posted April 25, 2014 ...? Sorry, I don't understand. You mean she heard this from a 3rd party? But eyes? No, it means she can tell what's going on. That your girlfriend is using you. She has more life experience, she cares about you and she is worried that you are being exploited (which is what everyone else on LS has been saying). 6
MidwestUSA Posted April 25, 2014 Posted April 25, 2014 No, it means she can tell what's going on. That your girlfriend is using you. She has more life experience, she cares about you and she is worried that you are being exploited (which is what everyone else on LS has been saying). What was that comment your gf made recently, OP? 'I wish MY brother would buy me an apartment like this', or something along those lines? It stood out to me, even tho the thread was about sex (surprise!) 2
David87 Posted April 25, 2014 Posted April 25, 2014 Maybe she's interested in you in a romantic way......it is a possibility.
Emilia Posted April 25, 2014 Posted April 25, 2014 Maybe she's interested in you in a romantic way......it is a possibility. The OP wants to believe that she is simply jealous because then he doesn't have to take notice of her views. Surely she wouldn't have 'refused his advances' then? No. She cares about the OP and she can tell what is going on. 1
amaysngrace Posted April 25, 2014 Posted April 25, 2014 If you're attracted to the single mom then why isn't she your girlfriend? 1
gaius Posted April 25, 2014 Posted April 25, 2014 I said before, the single mom uses you for your resources and your girlfriend uses your penis. They're in competition with each other over you but they both want different things. And the mom probably knows the one who's sleeping with you has the stronger position and it's causing her to be super aggressive. Seriously ladies, could you just set him straight? If you were dating a guy exclusively and he was busy doting on another woman and her kid would you put up with it? Of course not. 1
MidwestUSA Posted April 25, 2014 Posted April 25, 2014 ^^^what gaius said^^^ Of course I wouldn't put up with it. He needs to be servicing ME. 1
Author Medium.Lumo Posted April 26, 2014 Author Posted April 26, 2014 What was that comment your gf made recently, OP? 'I wish MY brother would buy me an apartment like this', or something along those lines? It stood out to me, even tho the thread was about sex (surprise!) Yes that wasn't cool ... quite childish really
Author Medium.Lumo Posted April 26, 2014 Author Posted April 26, 2014 Maybe she's interested in you in a romantic way......it is a possibility. I don't think so. Over the last year's I told her a few times that I thought she was pretty and so on... no reciprocation or interest.
Author Medium.Lumo Posted April 26, 2014 Author Posted April 26, 2014 If you're attracted to the single mom then why isn't she your girlfriend? Because she showed no interest. My girlfriend did. She's an 8 physically I would say. My girlfriend is a 9+ So yes I'm attracted to both of them.
Author Medium.Lumo Posted April 26, 2014 Author Posted April 26, 2014 Even if the time spent is just as friends? She also had the option of pursuing a relationship in the last few years... I would have been keen. I guess the age gap at the time may have put her off. Or something else. I don't know. I said before, the single mom uses you for your resources and your girlfriend uses your penis. They're in competition with each other over you but they both want different things. And the mom probably knows the one who's sleeping with you has the stronger position and it's causing her to be super aggressive. Seriously ladies, could you just set him straight? If you were dating a guy exclusively and he was busy doting on another woman and her kid would you put up with it? Of course not.
Author Medium.Lumo Posted April 26, 2014 Author Posted April 26, 2014 I don't really know what to say about this. The friend has been messaging me constantly asking if our friendship means anything to me anymore and my girlfriend has been badgering me about messaging with the friend. I can't win. Relationships are very dramatic Well actually women are very dramatic in general to be honest. Any single moms have input? I hope this is all about the daughter and not a true anti relationship thing...
gaius Posted April 26, 2014 Posted April 26, 2014 ^^^what gaius said^^^ Of course I wouldn't put up with it. He needs to be servicing ME. Thank you my dear! Even if the time spent is just as friends? She also had the option of pursuing a relationship in the last few years... I would have been keen. I guess the age gap at the time may have put her off. Or something else. I don't know. Spending money is as bad as having sex for a lot of women. In her eyes you're not friends, she's another woman you're expending resources on. If she wanted you sexually she probably would have made a move by now. She just wants to destroy your relationship with this other woman so she won't lose any of her own benefits. Some friend.
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