Heylol112 Posted April 25, 2014 Posted April 25, 2014 Okay so before you do anything. Here is My Story of our relationship and break up. So I sent her a card with my thoughts just so i could get it out of my head. but i sent that like soooo long ago. and Recently my friend told me that she wrote another hate status on me. For which i was like really? You always tell me to not write statuses about us and show it to the public but when you do it it's okay? So her cousins showed me; and I told them the story. and they were like "damn, after everything you did for her and she does that and doesn't realize it" and they said don't sweat it. She wrote how I was manipulative but I never was, I always was with her even when she was pregnant i stayed and care for her, and if she needed help her friends wouldn't help i would come over to. She says that she doesn't want to be my friend and that she never loved me, and that she will find someone that deserves her. But she's done that before and eventually she came back apologizing. Right now I'm still not contacting her. but the card i expressed my thoughts and she took it the wrong way. alot of people said she doesn't know what to say so she is just being negative about it and is trying to hurt me. I'm not really needy to have her right now. I'm just wondering why she's acting like that and posting it to the public thoughts?
iDrumKing Posted April 25, 2014 Posted April 25, 2014 There's no way for us to KNOW WHY she did what she did. You're friends need to stop delivering you these messages. 1
elseaacych Posted April 25, 2014 Posted April 25, 2014 Exes can be such pricks. You can never understand why. But, people tend to lash out when they're upset about something, and frequently they will lash out about the thing they are upset about. That's all I can guess. But really, it's a sign of immaturity. You can't do anything about it if you are NC. Let it go. Let her go. Tell your friends to stop telling you about what they are doing because really, if you hear anything about them, it just sets you back. NC, in it's most perfect form, is a total black out. Just keep on doing your thing. Don't bad mouth anyone. Just be you, and be awesome.
Chi townD Posted April 25, 2014 Posted April 25, 2014 Okay so before you do anything. Here is My Story of our relationship and break up. So I sent her a card with my thoughts just so i could get it out of my head. but i sent that like soooo long ago. and Recently my friend told me that she wrote another hate status on me. For which i was like really? You always tell me to not write statuses about us and show it to the public but when you do it it's okay? So her cousins showed me; and I told them the story. and they were like "damn, after everything you did for her and she does that and doesn't realize it" and they said don't sweat it. She wrote how I was manipulative but I never was, I always was with her even when she was pregnant i stayed and care for her, and if she needed help her friends wouldn't help i would come over to. She says that she doesn't want to be my friend and that she never loved me, and that she will find someone that deserves her. But she's done that before and eventually she came back apologizing. Right now I'm still not contacting her. but the card i expressed my thoughts and she took it the wrong way. alot of people said she doesn't know what to say so she is just being negative about it and is trying to hurt me. I'm not really needy to have her right now. I'm just wondering why she's acting like that and posting it to the public thoughts? This is why we stay with NO CONTACT! So, they can't turn things around on us! So, we don't give them an ego boost. No contact gives them nothing!
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