I got a call from a woman about this man I used to see. Not sure to return her call.

[nyny123]

Hi, so the situation is I got a voicemail from a woman about a man I used to see. Me and this guy were never really together, we went on a few dates until I decided we were better off as friends and been in contact via text. I couldn't quite make out what this woman was saying b/c she was speaking in a low tone. She didn't say who she was but she did say the guy name and something about she found out he's been seeing several different women and that another woman claimed that this guy wanted to take her to a hotel and have sex with her w/o a condom. The woman that called me said she was concerned about the woman in his phone book who might have an STD and that she wasn't trying to cause any drama and that it's fine if she don't get a return phone call and at one point this woman began to cry about something she found out. I want to talk to her but I don't know what to do.

[spiderowl]

It all sounds a bit weird but if you want to satisfy your curiosity, I'd call her but not tell her your name or any other personal details. She could be genuine and trying to warn women of something she is worried about, but equally she could be a weird stalker or something.

[nyny123]

It all sounds a bit weird but if you want to satisfy your curiosity, I'd call her but not tell her your name or any other personal details. She could be genuine and trying to warn women of something she is worried about, but equally she could be a weird stalker or something.

 

 

Yes it is weird and I never had something like this happen to me before. I'm very reluctant to call back. I wonder if this is some ex girlfriend. I remember when me and him talked he found a girlfriend then later broke up with her because he said she was being childish.

[Chocolat]

Why call? Seems like it will just lead to drama.

[Gaeta]

Someone trying to create some drama or some type of trouble in someone's life. It's not your concern what this man does in hotel rooms with whom ever.

[Hopeful30]

Just get tested.

 

And I agree with others, this sounds like a drama queen who wants to stir up sh*t.

 

I mean think about it. She had to snoop through his phone to get your number and probably his texts to find out you guys were even involved in the first place. Smells like drama.

Edited April 25, 2014 by Hopeful30

[nyny123]

Just get tested.

 

And I agree with others, this sounds like a drama queen who wants to stir up sh*t.

 

I mean think about it. She had to snoop through his phone to get your number and probably his texts to find out you guys were even involved in the first place. Smells like drama.

 

I never slept with this man so I'm not worried about any STD's. I think you're right about her trying to cause some drama.