Scarlett_girl Posted February 4, 2005 Posted February 4, 2005 OH MY GOD! you all know about the guy i'm interested in..we've been hanging out tons for about 1.5 months now..we're both busy with school and work so I think a relationship is out for the time being..however..we spent **** load fo time together..having coffee..lunch..studying together..going to art exhibits etc etc..and he makes cute little compliments and the like..however..every so often he'll barely talk to me! like today...on wednesday we spent about 4 hours talking and having lunch(he asked me..i never ask him)and then today..he wasnt saving me a seat in class(i was late..my bad) and then after class he didnt even look happy to see me..so we start talking..kind of..he didnt say much and then he says he needs to look up something and when i walk towards the door he looks suprised and says "you're going?" so I say i can wait a bit with him..but then he just totally ignores me for like 10 minutes as I'm standing right next to him! so then I just said I had to go and left...and once again he looked suprised that I was leaving.. I'm not sure what the hell is with this kid..I hate these mixed messages I get from him....I wish I could just say dude I like you, i dont want a relationship cuz I have no time but i like hanging with you and stuff...but jesus, what the **** is with your mood swings!??? any thoughts???
Author Scarlett_girl Posted February 5, 2005 Author Posted February 5, 2005 he's one of those guys who..when he is in a bad mood, doesnt want to talk...he just gets all pissy and moody and clams up..
Merin Posted February 5, 2005 Posted February 5, 2005 Originally posted by Scarlett_girl he's one of those guys who..when he is in a bad mood, doesnt want to talk...he just gets all pissy and moody and clams up.. Ugh! Honestly SG.. I don't know how you feel about this BUT IF this were me, I would tell him this... "Look, I like you a lot and I like hanging out with you.. but I'm not down for playing any mind games or trying to guess at what it is you may or may not be pissed off about. I would like to be there for you if I can, but I can't help or understand what's going on with you IF you don't tell me."
CurvyGurl Posted February 5, 2005 Posted February 5, 2005 Originally posted by Scarlett_girl he's one of those guys who..when he is in a bad mood, doesnt want to talk...he just gets all pissy and moody and clams up.. This is why I broke whatever off with M. In the span of a month he has managed to blow me off and refuse to talk due to 'moodyness'. There is only room for ONE woman in this relationship and *I* get to be her. He gets sullen and depressed and melancholy and won't talk to me. He doesn't want to see me, talk to me, touch me. But then when he's in a good mood, I get to be 'up' and all lovey dovey too. hmmmmmmmmmmmm no. I spent the better part of my life under the thumb of a moody and controlling man. No one could have a good time if he wasn't having a good time and he was NEVER having a good time. The mood of the house depended on his mood... I'm not bending to ANYONE's mood anymore.
Author Scarlett_girl Posted February 5, 2005 Author Posted February 5, 2005 thanks girls! I think Im just gonna have to say **** him! I'm a pretty and intellgent 20 year old and I dont need to feel like I'm not worth his precious moody time... remind me of this next time I complain about him
Merin Posted February 5, 2005 Posted February 5, 2005 Originally posted by Scarlett_girl thanks girls! I think Im just gonna have to say **** him! I'm a pretty and intellgent 20 year old and I dont need to feel like I'm not worth his precious moody time... remind me of this next time I complain about him ****ers! JK JK JK Honestly.. nobody needs that kind of crap in thier life.. good luck girl.
Author Scarlett_girl Posted February 7, 2005 Author Posted February 7, 2005 soo..update! today he acted like nothing had happened and was super sweet and cute with me..hugging me and he even took my hand at one point..I swear..he PMS's like a girl...
Barby Posted February 7, 2005 Posted February 7, 2005 Originally posted by Scarlett_girl thanks girls! I think Im just gonna have to say **** him! I'm a pretty and intellgent 20 year old and I dont need to feel like I'm not worth his precious moody time... remind me of this next time I complain about him
FoShizzleMyNizzle Posted February 9, 2005 Posted February 9, 2005 When someone is in a bad mood, try to talk to them and if they aren't responding... Leave them alone for awhile. Don't allow the negative brooding to affect you. You might want to ask why he is grumpy, leave him be or use your woman's intuition to find a way to empathize with him. And give me a break to that woman that said "Only one of us gets to be a woman." You dated the wrong type of guy - a guy that is silent strong type would be better for you so you can mouth all you want. Personally, I'd kill myself if I were to be in a relationship where a girl is one sided in her converations, blabbering how great she is.
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