TylerC Posted February 4, 2005 Posted February 4, 2005 Her: hey qt Me: hey how ya feelin? Her: jenica wants me to go to lunch w/ her so imma run errands w/ my mom go to lunch w/ jenica and hang w/ her for a lil then u cen come over later in the afternoon Her: Im feelin ok i guess Me: umm alright Me: what time Her: y the umm.. Her: ugh i new u would be like MERRR i dont want u do go w/ jenica rahh rahh rahh Her: i duna Me: i didnt say that Me: do you have any idea what time? like an estimate Her: Um no.. Me: alright Her: maybe 2 3ish Her: i duna Me: ok Her: :-\ Her: But remember were hangin out sunday too Me: i thought you said we might not be Her: so gimmie some time w. my friends also n im not sayin that i dont wanna hang out w/ u Me: ^ Her: we wil Me: alright Her: jst this weekend is a bad weekend cuz its a comp weekend and things are all screwy Me: next 3 will be heh Her: :-\UGH Me: im not mad! Her: then break up w/ me cuz i cant be w/ u all the time Me: lauren! Me: im not mad at all Me: did you see the "heh" Her: :-\ Me: thats like an "lol" or "haha" Her: No uh Her: not 2 me Me: well thats how i interpret, im sorry =( Her: :'( Me: ??? Her: :'( Me: whats the matter lauren Her: UGHHHHHHH!!! Me: lauren i swear to you im not mad at all Her: Nothing its jst im kinda pissy today lol i duna why Her: I JST WANN GO THROW LIKE SOMTHIN THROUGH MY WINDOW er sumpin Me: whoa--this is me joking for the next 4 IMs Me: settle downl Me: take a midol Her: MAKE ME Me: lauren are you really this mad or kidding Her: Im serious Her: i am so pissy! Her: i jst told bb that im like wow im so pissy right now Me: =\ Me: well you cant control it--she is on her period now Her: YEAH I NO Her: wow Her: sorry Her: caps Her: lol Me: its all good Me: do you have cramps? Her: Nope Her: i g2g get some stuff done 4 my mom or i cant do ne thing today so i will talk to ya l8er Me: alright Her: I love you! Me: i love you Her: bye Me: call me later Me: about plans Her: Mkay She signed off at 9:57:16 AM. Alright, so I don't know what her deal is. I realize she is on her period and she can't control it, but it would be good if she made and effort to be nicer to me. I know she doesn't really mean all of it, but it hurts to see her talk to me like that. The reason I said "umm alright" after she said she was going out to lunch with Jenica and her mom was because we had plans, Lauren said she was going to run errands and then call me when she got done. I know she wants to spend time with her friends, but she spent last weekend with her and the weekend before that with her. She also had to change plans around on me last weekend, so this didn't make too happy. Any advice on how to deal with this situation?
tattoomytoe Posted February 4, 2005 Posted February 4, 2005 accept it for now. i doubt if she will cancel plans with her mom and friend..... Best revenge would be to ask if you can join them....maybe it will suck, but it will be fun just to be there! if she says no you cannot come then make a stink about how you never want to see her and how she acts all ashamed of you..... why else would she not want you to go to lunch with her?
Merin Posted February 4, 2005 Posted February 4, 2005 Damn! LOL so now I'm thinking about the Movie White Chicks.. one says "OMG I'm going to have a BF" uh.. a BF? A beeotch fit! Good Lord! I know that we girls can get moody, whatever during that time of the month.. but honestly sometimes I think it's used as an "excuse" to act like a sh*t and get a free immunity card for bad behaviour. IF I told my BF some crap like "go ahead and break up with me because (whatever)" yeah.. the next thing I would hear would be a dial tone.. (I know this was on IM.. but you get the idea) Sheeesh.. wish I could help you out more.. all I can say is this.. wait until she doesn't have the "I'm having my period lame excuse" and then talk to her about her behaviour when she's not in a little mood. Being b*tchy.. it happens.. all the time.. isn't okay.. AND saying things you don't mean like "break up with me" all I can say is be careful what you ask for. Good Luck
Pocky Posted February 4, 2005 Posted February 4, 2005 Unfortunately, most women have to admit (even though some of us would rather not) that when it's that time, we really are capable of acting like a bitch. Some of us more than others (some of us when it's it not that time, but that's another story). Don't make too much out of it.
Scott S Posted February 4, 2005 Posted February 4, 2005 Originally posted by tattoomytoe accept it for now. i doubt if she will cancel plans with her mom and friend..... Best revenge would be to ask if you can join them....maybe it will suck, but it will be fun just to be there! I think that would be "gate-crashing," & therefore bad form. I would say let this one pass for now. if she says no you cannot come then make a stink about how you never want to see her and how she acts all ashamed of you..... why else would she not want you to go to lunch with her? Rather than cause a scene & possibly making an a**clown out of onesself, perhaps a mild taste of her own medicine would be in order. That is, make plans with her, then change them at the last minute to go to a ballgame with your friends. Any thoughts? ______________________________________________ Make something idiot-proof, and they'll just invent a better idiot.
kanga Posted February 4, 2005 Posted February 4, 2005 Originally posted by TylerC Her: hey qt Me: hey how ya feelin? Her: jenica wants me to go to lunch w/ her so imma run errands w/ my mom go to lunch w/ jenica and hang w/ her etc. etc. OK, I know this is a serious post. But I was really truly LOLing reading this. Reading how folks write over IM is just so funny sometimes. Her reaction to your "heh" is just priceless. I wouldn't let her get away with acting like this -- period or not. But then again, I'm more crampy, mopey than angry when it's my time, so I may not know what I'm talking about. Maybe she really can't control it. I like the suggestion by Scott below -- about making plans and cancelling for a guy's night out.
tattoomytoe Posted February 4, 2005 Posted February 4, 2005 On my soap box~ I think the Period Excuss is Such a cop out! i hate it when women say that, sure there maybe truth to it, but accept responsibilty for your actions!
Pocky Posted February 4, 2005 Posted February 4, 2005 I don't know if it's about not accepting responsibility for our actions, but more of an explanation as to why we would be in a foul mood for no apparent reason.
blind_otter Posted February 4, 2005 Posted February 4, 2005 Originally posted by tattoomytoe On my soap box~ I think the Period Excuss is Such a cop out! i hate it when women say that, sure there maybe truth to it, but accept responsibilty for your actions! Agreed. I don't get pissy so much as emotional. Like I cry at diaper commercials. Last night I cried at the end of "house of flying daggers" - my date was like, uh, are you ok? Younger girls are more emotional anyways, though - I was even more crazy when I was younger than I am now.
Merin Posted February 4, 2005 Posted February 4, 2005 Originally posted by blind_otter Agreed. I don't get pissy so much as emotional. Like I cry at diaper commercials. Last night I cried at the end of "house of flying daggers" - my date was like, uh, are you ok? Younger girls are more emotional anyways, though - I was even more crazy when I was younger than I am now. Thats how I am.. I get emotional, not really b*tchy.
tattoomytoe Posted February 4, 2005 Posted February 4, 2005 goodness, i was crying watching Previews for the Lion King last PMS! i was like i can't watch this, and my sister was like this is not even the movie!!
sweetpea01 Posted February 4, 2005 Posted February 4, 2005 OMG...my PMS is SOOOO bad. If my bf even does something that would jst annoy me for 5 minutes on a regular day, I can sit and cry about it for hours. I have considered seeing a doctor about it - it didnt used to be so bad. So, maybe she is using it as an excuse....but nobody can speak for her on how she feels during PMS. Another thing - once I get my period I am fine - it's just the days before where I am a nutcase. Once I get it, I might complain about cramps, but emotionally I am ok.
FolderWife Posted February 4, 2005 Posted February 4, 2005 my husband is a beotch when I'm on my period. We can't stand each other I doubt it's a get out of trouble free card, because I DO get really moody that time of month. I didn't see anything all that harsh in the convo She shouldn't have bailed onyour plans though
Scott S Posted February 4, 2005 Posted February 4, 2005 Originally posted by sweetpea01 OMG...my PMS is SOOOO bad. If my bf even does something that would jst annoy me for 5 minutes on a regular day, I can sit and cry about it for hours. I have considered seeing a doctor about it - it didnt used to be so bad. So, maybe she is using it as an excuse....but nobody can speak for her on how she feels during PMS. Another thing - once I get my period I am fine - it's just the days before where I am a nutcase. Once I get it, I might complain about cramps, but emotionally I am ok. Thank you, Dear Lord, for my "Y" chromosomes! __________________________________________________ If the world was perfect, it wouldn't be - Yogi Berra
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