UCFKevin Posted February 5, 2005 Posted February 5, 2005 Think of it this way. Do you see guys in clubs and wonder, "Hmm, I wonder what he'd be like to talk to? I hope he likes the same kind of movies I do!" BS. It's all physical. They just want to hook up.
Author JoL Posted February 5, 2005 Author Posted February 5, 2005 Haha im about to go out to a club too..it's going to be on my mind everytime a guy chats to me too! hehe
kanga Posted February 5, 2005 Posted February 5, 2005 Originally posted by UCFKevin Do you see guys in clubs and wonder, "Hmm, I wonder what he'd be like to talk to? Um, actually, yes. I see a guy who looks interesting and I do wonder what he'd be like to talk to. *IF* I actually possibly interested in him. Maybe I'm unconventional like that.
Mr Spock Posted February 5, 2005 Posted February 5, 2005 Originally posted by blue17 Okay, then I have a question as well. Most of you girls say you don't like a guy just walking up behind and 'inviting himself to your ass' Fair enough, I can respect that. That being said, what WOULD make you freak w/ a guy? Do you only grind w/ guys whom you've talked to at least a little bit, so you know they are a decent person etc? I would only "grind" with a guy that I found attractive. And if you're trying to "grind" I wouldn't find you attractive, I'd think you were an ass. Guys go to drink and pick up. Girls mostly go to dance and have fun with friends. The two agendas don't really go. You're better off waiting to see which ones are attracted to YOU before you go up and chit chat so you can dry hump on the dance floor later.
blue17 Posted February 5, 2005 Posted February 5, 2005 is there an easy way to know whether they find me attractive or not? Like if we make eye contact and smile is it all good from there then?
UCFKevin Posted February 6, 2005 Posted February 6, 2005 Yup. Um, actually, yes. I see a guy who looks interesting and I do wonder what he'd be like to talk to. *IF* I actually possibly interested in him. Maybe I'm unconventional like that. Well, then, that ain't the case for guys. Guys don't go to clubs to find women to date. They go to clubs to find women to f*ck. Generally.
ziggue Posted February 6, 2005 Posted February 6, 2005 Originally posted by UCFKevin Guys don't go to clubs to find women to date. They go to clubs to find women to f*ck. Generally. That's why some girls only go to clubs to dance, drink a little, hang out and have a good time. Lol. I met my current boyfriend at a club. We pashed and had a nice conversation. . I gave him my number. Suprised he ended up ringing the next day. Wasn't expecting that. . Still together 11 months later. Going well. . The club isn't really the best place to meet someone though. Still you just never know...
kanga Posted February 6, 2005 Posted February 6, 2005 Originally posted by UCFKevin Well, then, that ain't the case for guys. Guys don't go to clubs to find women to date. They go to clubs to find women to f*ck. Generally. Right, I know. That's precisely why when I go out, it's just for fun's sake. That's why earlier in this thread, I said this, "I dance with them, I have fun while there, I've even kissed a few times. But I never take them seriously." It would be nice if I could. But I know that's not the case. Generally.
MissTaerie Posted February 7, 2005 Posted February 7, 2005 The only guys that ever went home with me from the club were the ones I brought there to begin with. I agree...Club guys, yuck.
Sukotto Posted February 8, 2005 Posted February 8, 2005 So where do all you girls meet your guys then? I usually try to chat to girls to get dates in bars which are much quieter and most people are sober. The clubs I wont even try, i just go there to dance with my friends who are mostly female so I probably look like a pimp!
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