LuvsTrucks2 Posted April 22, 2014 Posted April 22, 2014 So I finally got it out of the guy I have been seeing that I want more than he is willing to give because I said I'm not a FWB, FB or booty call, he said he thinks more of me than that and still wants to be friends. I asked him to clarify what his definitition of friends will be and he said he still wants to talk. Does this mean he wants to keep me on the radar or does he truly want to be friends?
somedude81 Posted April 22, 2014 Posted April 22, 2014 So I finally got it out of the guy I have been seeing that I want more than he is willing to give because I said I'm not a FWB, FB or booty call, he said he thinks more of me than that and still wants to be friends. I asked him to clarify what his definitition of friends will be and he said he still wants to have sex. Does this mean he wants to keep me on the radar or does he truly want to be friends? Fixed it for you. 1
Zahara Posted April 22, 2014 Posted April 22, 2014 Does this mean he wants to keep me on the radar or does he truly want to be friends? Yes, he wants to keep you on call as a friend he can still have sex and companionship with.
Author LuvsTrucks2 Posted April 22, 2014 Author Posted April 22, 2014 We hadn't had sex yet, we came close to it, but didn't.
Zahara Posted April 22, 2014 Posted April 22, 2014 We hadn't had sex yet, we came close to it, but didn't. It doesn't matter. He knows at some point it's going to happen.
somedude81 Posted April 22, 2014 Posted April 22, 2014 We hadn't had sex yet, we came close to it, but didn't. Huh?! Then why did you say "I'm not a FWB, FB or booty call" ? OK good, you haven't had sex with him. What do you want from him?
Author LuvsTrucks2 Posted April 22, 2014 Author Posted April 22, 2014 somedue, we came really close Friday night to having sex but we didn't because neither one of was prepared, it was a total unexpected thing. The FWB, FB, booty call came from when he said he knew I wanted more from him, meaning exclusivity/relationship, and I said yes because I'm not the FWB, FB, booty call type. I wasn't instantly attracted to him when we met but as time went on I did become attracted to him.
somedude81 Posted April 22, 2014 Posted April 22, 2014 somedue, we came really close Friday night to having sex but we didn't because neither one of was prepared, it was a total unexpected thing. The FWB, FB, booty call came from when he said he knew I wanted more from him, meaning exclusivity/relationship, and I said yes because I'm not the FWB, FB, booty call type. I wasn't instantly attracted to him when we met but as time went on I did become attracted to him. Good for you guys for stopping when you weren't prepared. My suggestion is not to get close to having sex again until he agrees to being in an exclusive relationship with you. The two of you need to have that talk.
Author LuvsTrucks2 Posted April 22, 2014 Author Posted April 22, 2014 (edited) I don't think we will be in that type of situation, I asked him what exactly was his definition of "friend" was because I wanted to be clear before I agreed to it, he said he still wanted to talk. I guess he means by text. Edited April 22, 2014 by LuvsTrucks2
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