shirls81 Posted April 22, 2014 Posted April 22, 2014 I have been with my fiance for 2 years, I am expecting our 1st child although my partner already has a 10yr old son. Our 2yrs have been good and bad. Alot of ups and downs due to his ex. I have always been a hard worker but I left my job at end of last year and money was tight I was stressed out with not working, had certainly jumped the gun too quickly with leaving my job without another. My partner is on ESA with severe shoulder problems an has had several operations. Now I am pregnant I start a new job tomorrow, but my partner is being very difficult to live with. He leaves me no money, goes out drinking leaves me on my own with no car. I live in a place where I am surrounded by his family an friends not any of mine. My family is over 2hrs away. I feel he will never change and it will get harder once baby comes but I do love him. I left last night an came to my friends house over half hour away but do not know what to do from here. Help
Trovador Posted April 23, 2014 Posted April 23, 2014 Are you trying to really leave him or just shake him a bit? If it is the former, you should consider going back to your family, if a friend is helping you now I guess your own people will be glad to take you in, at least while things get less difficult... You say you love him and he is the father of your child, I think a serious conversation is in order, a check reality for him if you will... on the other hand, you feel he never will change so take this in mind when deciding what to do... But sometimes, people get away from someone they love, because love isn't a license to abuse, disrespect and neglect the other party... 1
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