eeface Posted February 4, 2005 Posted February 4, 2005 Please I'd like someone to give me an advice. I know the first thing that will come to your mind after my question is, 'there r books that would help you on that" I'm really tired of this book thing. I need answers - simple answers. can someone help? The question: How will I know that a girl loves me from what she says or her action? Thanks!
BrainRightHeartWrong Posted February 4, 2005 Posted February 4, 2005 usually a girl will tell you but usually only probing to see whether you feel the same for her first! simple as that!
Author eeface Posted February 4, 2005 Author Posted February 4, 2005 I C, thanks! it makes things easier then. I guess my problem has been not paying attention to them.. and from your response it means I have to show that girl I love some affection. it's like ABC, but i'm afraid it doesnt work that easy. what do you think?
Pocky Posted February 4, 2005 Posted February 4, 2005 If you want someone to be affectionate with you the first step would be for you to be affectionate with them. Granted, this may not always work because some people are just naturally more affectionate than others. Sometimes you luck out and find someone that's compatible in that area and you never have to question as to whether or not the person enjoys your company. Incorporate some affection and see how she responds.
Sharmaine Posted February 4, 2005 Posted February 4, 2005 If she is doubting how you feel about her, then that could be why she is witholding from saying 'I love you'. She may be watching from signs from you, actions or words that you may love her too and they are not forthcoming. You said yourself that maybe you need to show her more 'affection'. Affection isn't something you'd be short of showing, if you loved her IMO. It would come naturally. BTW, I didn't have to guess at whether a guy was in love with me or not and I never had any qualms in saying 'I love you' to a guy, even tho he may not have said it first. I woulda thought that those words came naturally also when people are truly in love..who cares who says it first?
alphamale Posted February 4, 2005 Posted February 4, 2005 Originally posted by eeface The question: How will I know that a girl loves me from what she says or her action? Thanks! Love is shown over the long term by one's actions and not their words. Any moron can say "I luv u". Love is when someone sticks by yer side thru the thick and thin, good times and bad, and is there for you when tragedy strikes. They also provide you emotional support over the long run. Actions always trump words, remember this.
Merin Posted February 4, 2005 Posted February 4, 2005 Originally posted by alphamale Actions always trump words, remember this. This is so true..
Author eeface Posted February 4, 2005 Author Posted February 4, 2005 I have learnt a lot Thank you all!
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