shattrdmadness Posted February 4, 2005 Posted February 4, 2005 Well, i was wondering if anyone has ever been in this situation before! : there is a guy that i have been interested in for a couple months. we've hung out together a couple times, but then he stopped calling me because of the winter break, holidays, etc. i saw him again about two weeks ago at a bar, and he barely talked to me! which i was fine with since we hadn't talked in a while. three days later he called me and asked if i wanted to get together the next day. i said yes, but then he never called back! so, i figured he just changed his mind. then, the next week he called again, and we made plans. and guess what, he never called to follow through. what is this guy thinking? if he cared enough to call back the second week, wouldn't that mean that he was interested? am i just supposed to wait around for his next call! what is going on!
tattoomytoe Posted February 4, 2005 Posted February 4, 2005 why not show that you too are interested and follow through with making the plans, or at least making contact in the interm to see if you two are still gonna hand out. maybe he feels he has to do everything nd thinks this will be perccieved as desparate. it annoys me when girls are like, "i just do not know what happened? he used to call me, but he just stopped" well do you call the boy? "well, no! he is supposed to call me!"
kanga Posted February 4, 2005 Posted February 4, 2005 Originally posted by tattoomytoe why not show that you too are interested and follow through with making the plans ... Right on. I wonder, have you set up the plans and then he stands you up? Or does he say let's get together without anything actually decided. If it's the latter, yes, he might be thinking the ball is in your court, it's your turn to serve and call back to set up something. He's making the first call, you gotta make the second in this case. Now, if it's the former -- then I have no idea. I'd say he's a jerk.
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