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How much PDA is too much?


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Just a minor thing with my gf and I recently - we'll be at a crowded bar and when she gets a drink or two in her she wants to kiss. But not just a peck. Basically a mini make out sesh. Tonguing and all that. I try to cut it short and she'll get slightly offended heh. But it seems sloppy and classless to make out when there's people literally sitting right next to you. Maybe I'm just being a prude.

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It's really an individual preference thing. I get really grossed out when I see people doing the equivalent of foreplay in public. My guy and I draw the line at affectionate but not-really-sexual gestures - holding hands, arms around shoulder/waist, hugs, pecks on the cheek, etc.

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Mini make out session is too much PDA for me. I find it can be rude and make it uncomfortable for the people around you. (Honesty nobody wants to see that crap!)

 

In public, I limit it to hand holding, pecks, hugs, arm around waist or shoulder.

 

Just talk to her about it and to not take it personally. You dont do everything in public u do in private--certain PDA is definitely on that list.

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Just a minor thing with my gf and I recently - we'll be at a crowded bar and when she gets a drink or two in her she wants to kiss. But not just a peck. Basically a mini make out sesh. Tonguing and all that. I try to cut it short and she'll get slightly offended heh. But it seems sloppy and classless to make out when there's people literally sitting right next to you. Maybe I'm just being a prude.

 

I think it depends on the location/situation. A passionate kiss in a crowded bar sounds fine to me, but the very same kiss in some other places might look out of place.

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