MN85 Posted April 20, 2014 Posted April 20, 2014 Hello Ladies, Quick question for you all - why do some women out there build in what I'd like to dub "Call me out on my Bull****" tests into the foreplay phase? Over time, I've gotten pretty good at disarming those tests but - quite frankly - they do still annoy me every time I encounter them because they're just a useless waste of time (from a guy's perspective at least). I'll give you an example from this weekend: Met up with a girl I've known for about a year now for drinks. Now the back story is that we've been out for 3 or 4 times since we've met and it is pretty clear by now that whenever we meet, we essentially do it to **** (last time she called me up, this time I did). So we go to a bar, have a few drinks. laugh, have a good time, and then move on to my place where we share some funny movies, etc. for a little while to ease into the mood. Then I make my move and lean over to kiss her, to which she turns away. I give it a few minutes, lean over again, we make out, and after a little while she pulls back again. A few minutes later - same thing but a little more intense and she pulls away again. Then she jumps up from the couch and moves into my bed fully-clothed (which TBH pissed me off because she'd been in a bar and on the metro in the same clothes but wth...). I give her a hard time for that last move to which she puts on her coat and boots, grabs her bag and "gets ready to leave" saying that we're both tired. I sit back on the couch and look at her for a while, then extend my hand and wave her over. She comes back and leans into me and turns into heavy-breathing putty (fun fact: I was actually going for a little teasing while taking off our clothes but she cut that short by ripping hers and then mine off - figures...). The rest, as they say, is history. Oh and I allmost forgot - during sex she then proceeds to tell me how much I turn her on, how hot I am and how much she likes that I "don't let her take herself too seriously" (which I interpret as calling her out on her bull****). She obviously was getting off on her show but I don't entirely understand why - especially since we were both horny and her show took about 45 minutes from beginning to bed - erm - meant ot say end. Last time we met to ****, she pulled an almost identical game and a few other women have done that with me in the past as well before ****ing. Now - please explain WTF the purpose pf all of this is. Also - is it something that I do that makes these women play silly games before ****ing with me or are they getting a kick out of these games with everyone? Input appreciated. Cheers
Omei Posted April 20, 2014 Posted April 20, 2014 Idk by her actions in my head to me...the makeouts and slight pull aways she prob just wants you to flip her over and give her the hardest **** of a lifetime... But like I said to me that's what id be trying to get out of a guy with a kiss and pull away crap. I could be totally wrong! Are you for real about someone sitting on your bed in clothes they wore and sat in other places with? I think that's like some weird phobia you got there lol
Author MN85 Posted April 20, 2014 Author Posted April 20, 2014 Idk by her actions in my head to me...the makeouts and slight pull aways she prob just wants you to flip her over and give her the hardest **** of a lifetime... But like I said to me that's what id be trying to get out of a guy with a kiss and pull away crap. I could be totally wrong! Are you for real about someone sitting on your bed in clothes they wore and sat in other places with? I think that's like some weird phobia you got there lol HA - lot's of people give me crap about the clothes/bed thing but what can I say - I'm a bit of a neat freak To your comment - I figured the same - especially given the ultimate outcome which always is a rough ****. However, what I dont quite get is the game beforehand. I always figure that they want to go through a few cycles of "engage, then pull away" with each cycle being more steamy than the previous one before ****ing, which inevitable results in a prolonged timeline from first move to ****. OR am I not reading the clues properly meaning that I should just pull her back right after the first "pull-away" and go all in? I always thought that doing so would kill the mood for a girl like this (tho I do that all the time with other girls and most of them engage right away which is a time SAVER... ). Thx for the input btw
Omei Posted April 20, 2014 Posted April 20, 2014 Ask her what she wants, ask if she likes role play sometimes I flat out say if you could play this all out in your head as a fantasy what would you have me do? I love asking this question because you cant go wrong with it you end up giving them exactly what they imagine.
Author MN85 Posted April 20, 2014 Author Posted April 20, 2014 Ask her what she wants, ask if she likes role play sometimes I flat out say if you could play this all out in your head as a fantasy what would you have me do? I love asking this question because you cant go wrong with it you end up giving them exactly what they imagine. I see - so you're saying that having fun with girls like this one will inevitable be a time suck... Ah well - she was hot and the sex was good so who am I to complain
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