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i will try to keep this short i met a girl online she is in seattle i am in ny she came out to see me and do the tourist thing i showed her around and we had a good time, this was 2 yrs ago and we ended up falling in love and having a LDR. now 2 years later it comes time for me to move to be closer to her and i got caught. i lied to her i am not married i am single no kids and well thing is i lied to her about something major which i think she knows just i think she might be in denial. i want to be with her but don't think even if she finally did except me that we could be togther but on the other hand she calls me to tell me that she is gonna sleep with her ex just to back at me and when she does she will call me to tell me that way i know she really did it. that is tearing me up inside and i don't know what to do........any advice

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I'm a little confused as to what actually happened... A few more details might help.

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i told her i was guy when i am really a girl i know i have some issues here and i am trying to work at them seeing a doctor and everything. i have told her the truth but she doesn't believe me

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To be honest, I think that perhaps you need to focus on yourself and forget anyone else for the moment. Once you've got a handle on yourself, then you'll be able to move into a relationship. Until then, I believe anything beyond friendship is going to complicate things for you and interfere with your growth.

 

As always, I mean no offense.

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is love all we need? heck no! i need money too!

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gotta have beer too......sorry

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Like my BF says (LDR too) You have to love and care about yourself first... so you can truly love and care for another person, My advice to you its that you need to focus in yourself first you need to know what you really want and feel, then when you feel secure you can talk sincerely to this girl.. :)

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i want her i want to be with her but i am also scared what if when i really tell her well i mean prove it to her cause i have already told her she just doesn't believe me and prove it to her, then i feel i will loose her forever.

i mean i thought i had dealt with break ups before but honestly speaking i guess not cause i can't sleep when i do i have nightmares can't eat i am vomiting all the time and i feel so alone and confused like i am lost the doctor wants to put me on anti depressive stuff but i am fighting it.

 

she keeps telling me she wants the truth i have told her she just won't believe me and i don't know what else to do now she is going to go out with this guy to get back at me and that date is tonight.

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