AnneT1985 Posted April 19, 2014 Posted April 19, 2014 Hi y'all! Can I get your totally honest opinions please? I have had a friend for years. She has always kept to herself a lot and been a busy gal but substantially even more so in recent history. She will regularly invite me and show up to events I have, send me birthday and holiday and congratulations cards and show her friendship and support that way but besides that I don't regularly communicate with her. I will try...and like every week I am inviting her over or asking when we can get together and she will rarely respond. Is she being not a great friend/sending me a message or am I not accepting her as she is and should I stop taking it personally and maybe back off on how often I ask her to get together?- Also, could that perhaps be making me look "needy"? What do y'all think? Thanks so much and have a great weekend xx
Tressugar Posted April 19, 2014 Posted April 19, 2014 I would say the latter of the two options. Take the friendship for how it is being offered to you. As long as it's healthy and supportive relationship then leave 'well enough' alone.
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