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Hey everyone.. I posted a long time ago about someone I met online that I fell hard for within 1.5 months... Well it's been since the first week of march since he broke the news to me he didn't want to see me. He definitely bull****tedbthe reasons why bc he is still on online dating sites.

 

I don't know why but I'm still having trouble dealing with the rejection :( I have been on dates with other people and recently started talking to a guy from my school and still cannot stop thinking of this guy from 2 months ago...

 

What do I do?!

 

The guy from school is really nice, very sweet, and I lie talking to him, but didnt feel a spark or anything when we missed and I keep thinking about the other guy. I am really trying to make an effort and give e guy from school a chance because I think there is a possibility he will grow on me...

 

But HOW do I get over this old guy... I know I can't contact him and I will probably never run into him but I think about him way to much :(

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Being your focus back to being healthy and happy, and stop thinking about why. He wasn't the one, and he obviously wasn't very constructive in letting you know he wasn't into you so be kind to yourself and think about what you need in a man. You need kindness. Number one trait a man must have. No one should ever date guys who are too cool to be kind. Bad boys are good to flirt with but not to date so dust yourself off, remember that you have a lot to offer and get back in the scene. By focusing on him you lose focus on yourself. You need to bring it back to you because you are your only advocate so don't lose yourself to a bruised ego....not worth it.

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