wing81 Posted February 3, 2005 Posted February 3, 2005 I have a friend that I have been interested in for a couple of months but have only known her for a month or two longer than that. We have worked and have had classes together during that time. Unfortunately she has taken a break this semester so I haven't had tiem to spend with her the past couple of months (she is about 18 driving hours away), neither has anyone else in our department. This week she has come back into town for two days. Pretty much everyone got together tonight to see her and I have the feeling that she will want to spend a little more one on one time with some closer friends before she leaves. I feel I needed to make it more clear to her that I would like to get to know her better but at the same time dont' want to make it uncomfortable for her if and when she returns in the fall. I can see myself having a relationship and a friendship with this girl. I just don't want to pass up a good thing but would hate to destroy what is already there. Should I go ahead and tell her that I would love to spend more one on one time with her before she heads home or just wait till next fall. If I tell her now I could strenght the bond between us till she comes back in the fall or it could just make her more nervous about coming back. I just feel like I have gotten so many mixed signals I'm not sure what the best course of action would be. I would really appreciate some advice before she leaves.
Pocky Posted February 3, 2005 Posted February 3, 2005 Normally, I'd say just tell her, but she's leaving for a few months. Wouldn't it make things difficult to spend intimate time with her, then have her gone for four-six months?
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