Easyguy14 Posted April 18, 2014 Posted April 18, 2014 I really cant figure it out. I get the feeling she might be for real but then again said woman may be trying to scam/con me out of something. Anyway to give you people the shorter version of said incident: I messaged her on OKC and she replied expressing interest in me, but the thing is she wants to meet right away and have a dinner at a local diner in Parkchester Bronx to be exact and I feel strange about the whole situation. We exchanged numbers and been texting back and forth, but now I want to hear said woman's voice and she wont oblige to this. How come? She wants to keep on texting like teenagers and we're both adults. But yet she wants to meet right now at a diner to eat and talk? How's that possible if she wont bother to answer the phone so we can hear each other's voice? Plus I sent her some of my recent photos through text and she gives me a website where she claims its her pictures. How would I know? She refuses to text me them. I need to tread lightly here so I suggested we meet someplace else but she wont budge. Says it must be Parkchester and Parkchester only. Is this a possible setup? Has anyone experienced something similar? I need help here because I don't normally do online hookups and I wonder just how common this is.
Author Easyguy14 Posted April 18, 2014 Author Posted April 18, 2014 I really cant figure it out. I get the feeling she might be for real but then again said woman may be trying to scam/con me out of something. Anyway to give you people the shorter version of said incident: I messaged her on OKC and she replied expressing interest in me, but the thing is she wants to meet right away and have a dinner at a local diner in Parkchester Bronx to be exact and I feel strange about the whole situation. We exchanged numbers and been texting back and forth, but now I want to hear said woman's voice and she wont oblige to this. How come? She wants to keep on texting like teenagers and we're both adults. But yet she wants to meet right now at a diner to eat and talk? How's that possible if she wont bother to answer the phone so we can hear each other's voice? Plus I sent her some of my recent photos through text and she gives me a website where she claims its her pictures. How would I know? She refuses to text me them. I need to tread lightly here so I suggested we meet someplace else but she wont budge. Says it must be Parkchester and Parkchester only. Is this a possible setup? Has anyone experienced something similar? I need help here because I don't normally do online hookups and I wonder just how common this is. Anyone? I really need to hear from some people.
J21 Posted April 18, 2014 Posted April 18, 2014 You're probably gonna get jumped. Don't risk it and stop replying. Let this one go, plenty of other girls that won't seem shady about a change of venue.
todreaminblue Posted April 18, 2014 Posted April 18, 2014 I really cant figure it out. I get the feeling she might be for real but then again said woman may be trying to scam/con me out of something. Anyway to give you people the shorter version of said incident: I messaged her on OKC and she replied expressing interest in me, but the thing is she wants to meet right away and have a dinner at a local diner in Parkchester Bronx to be exact and I feel strange about the whole situation. We exchanged numbers and been texting back and forth, but now I want to hear said woman's voice and she wont oblige to this. How come? She wants to keep on texting like teenagers and we're both adults. But yet she wants to meet right now at a diner to eat and talk? How's that possible if she wont bother to answer the phone so we can hear each other's voice? Plus I sent her some of my recent photos through text and she gives me a website where she claims its her pictures. How would I know? She refuses to text me them. I need to tread lightly here so I suggested we meet someplace else but she wont budge. Says it must be Parkchester and Parkchester only. Is this a possible setup? Has anyone experienced something similar? I need help here because I don't normally do online hookups and I wonder just how common this is. to me its weird........proceed with caution...take it public for sure if you meet.......i would question why she doesnt care you would like to talk first.....before meeting......selfish.....possibly..mayb a speech impediment or nerves though......bad sign considering you havent met she isnt taking your desire into consideration without explaining why...at all..ask her outright why cant you speak over the phone first make your decision based on how her answer appears to you if it is nerves on phone communication then give her a chance......deb
preraph Posted April 18, 2014 Posted April 18, 2014 Yeah, don't do it. She's not being open. She's either up to something or concealing something. At bare minimum, could be married. Could be setting you up to rob you. They say on the Catfish tv show that if they won't let you hear their voice while still acting like you have something going, it's ALWAYS because they aren't the sex they say they are. Tell her you won't do it without Skyping first. Even if you hear her voice, she could just have someone doing it for her. I'd blow her off. 1
bubbaganoosh Posted April 18, 2014 Posted April 18, 2014 For all you know, she could be a guy. Take a bit of advice. Don't go and go looking some other place. 1
NYC-BigKat Posted April 18, 2014 Posted April 18, 2014 For all you know, she could be a guy. Take a bit of advice. Don't go and go looking some other place. Yup this sounds really spooky so please please be so careful & don't go.
hoping2heal Posted April 18, 2014 Posted April 18, 2014 Too much playing going on here, sign says exit. She wants to go to dinner and wants to meet with you, but wants to give literally 0. I think nada There's literally no rationale in "I want to meet for dinner" but "no we can't talk on the phone". Just don't risk it
Author Easyguy14 Posted April 18, 2014 Author Posted April 18, 2014 Too much playing going on here, sign says exit. She wants to go to dinner and wants to meet with you, but wants to give literally 0. I think nada There's literally no rationale in "I want to meet for dinner" but "no we can't talk on the phone". Just don't risk it I agree. I cancelled everything after this ridiculous back and forth and she got furious with me and cussed me up good calling me names I wont repeat here, so yea I dodged a bullet on this one. 1
hoping2heal Posted April 18, 2014 Posted April 18, 2014 I agree. I cancelled everything after this ridiculous back and forth and she got furious with me and cussed me up good calling me names I wont repeat here, so yea I dodged a bullet on this one. LOL YEP..crazypants!!! Gosh I really hope it isn't someone trying to set up people and cause them grave harm. Maybe you should report your experience to the site?
J21 Posted April 18, 2014 Posted April 18, 2014 I agree. I cancelled everything after this ridiculous back and forth and she got furious with me and cussed me up good calling me names I wont repeat here, so yea I dodged a bullet on this one. Nice man, kudos. Def agree you dodged something here lol.
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