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How do you get rid of the bitterness?

GingerVixen

By GingerVixen
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mantlefan Established Member

mantlefan

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I feel like you, bro. I feel she dried my soul and hardened my heart. I guess it made me grow disenchanted about my perhaps idealized and absolute idea of love, my romantic attitude and my readiness to give all myself to the person I love. I know from now on I will be more skeptical and suspicious, that the fear of getting hurt will prevent me from being the loving person iI was. If this is a lesson, well, then I wish she never taught it to me.

 

This made me think. Looking back, my ex is a person who is more afraid of APPEARING to be a bad person than she is afraid of actually being one. I guess in some ways, giving in to the fear I have that I will be betrayed and used again just makes me more like her. And if there is one person in this world I do NOT want to emulate, it is the person I found out she truly is.

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hoping2heal Established Member

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I think we can get rid of the bitterness when we realize we can still have everything we ever wanted and a fulfilling life, in spite of being without an ex who hurt us.

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