manlikelj Posted April 16, 2014 Posted April 16, 2014 im in love with my girlfriend.. no doubt about it, im only 17 and she is my first love but i feel so deeply for her, there is only one problem about her... we have been dating for 2 years and i have only seen her twice! she lives a hour away from me but calls it a "long distance relationship" which is a absolute joke. it seems she dont want to meet me... she is always "busy" really like everyday i ask her to meet me but she ALWAYS literally has something to do. i told myself i will move on if she does not meet me after the easter holidays because i have basically given her 2 years for us to get together but it has only happened twice.... the second time was only a 5 minute chat because she was in my area doing work. when i dont talk to her... i feel so anxious! i suffer from panic attacks and when im talking to her i feel so calm and relaxed but at the same time she really has contributed to my anxiety! she has messed my head up completely! i am now a overly jealous person because she seems to have time for everyone else but me and when i approach her with this , she gets extremely defensive saying its not her fault shes so busy but she cant even spare a minute for me. i told myself i would move on after christmas but yet i cant seem to let her go! i love her so much i would be prepared to give all i have just to be with this girl, she calls me crying saying she loves me but does nothing about it! we call eachother every night and we have broken up around 3 times in the 2 years but always get back together around 3 days later... she needs me and i need her but ive had enough of this and i need some advice! should i move on or stay with her?
Trovador Posted April 16, 2014 Posted April 16, 2014 Stop the madness, young man... that's not a healthy way to live... Something I have learned in all my years is that when someone loves us, nothing, I really mean nothing, stops them of showing with actions that love to us... heck, once a woman flew from Miami to my country to be with me two weeks... now that I remember, there was another woman who wanted to do the same but I convinced her of staying in USA... She is playing cruelly with you, I am pretty sure there is another boy and he is the real boyfriend, the one who sees her, touches her, kisses her... you are a pen pal, the listener, the sensitive one who don't question that odd friendship at all... Ignore her and start meeting other girls. You are young but don't waste already your life in chimeras...
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