Wambo Posted April 16, 2014 Posted April 16, 2014 I want to quote a section from an online article and some may find this interesting with their situation. There isn't a lot to go on and no examples to back this up but what he's saying is what I'm currently dealing with now. 2. Hook, line and sinker False hope and sweet nothings aren’t the only signs your ex is hedging their bets. Shutting the door on reconciliation can lead a resentful ex to attempt to get your attention by any means necessary. If they can’t appeal to your rosier side, they can attempt to keep you in their lives by acting like they can’t stand you. If they seem hell-bent on attempting to bring you down, see the charade for what it is. A desperate attempt to keep you planted in their lives, and a last-ditch cry for attention. Anger stems from hurt, and hurt from caring. If they genuinely wanted to have nothing to do with you — they wouldn’t. [alert-note]Fighting fire with fire means playing a game of their choosing. If you refuse to take the bait the game will cease to reap its desired rewards.[/alert-note] 5 Signs Your Ex Is Playing Games I'm so thrilled to be in this situation and I just can't wait to see what coming up next? My exAP had pulled a great stunt to get me to notice her and I do need to give her some credit. Yes she must be raging mad to go that far and that extreme in an attempt to anger me but I do see the funny side of it. She wouldn't of gone that far unless it was a prank but instead she's crying for attention and this make my situation more depressing. I don't want to be in this situation because I know what my actions will do. I'm not going to do anything and this will crush her even more. Worst I'm angry because she put me in another difficult position and the only option on the table is to turn a blind eye. I just can't understand wht she can't use the same energy instead to improve her relationship and try to make it work. What she doing instead not only going to hurt me but hurt me aswell. I do care for her and I just hate seeing her self destructing over me......... In theory it's her boyfriend is the root cause in all this but I need to be blamed sooner for not stopping the affair sooner.
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