Marry bubbles Posted April 16, 2014 Posted April 16, 2014 So, for twenty years I was married to a guy who over time became detached and paid little attention to me. After his death, I stayed single raising our two small kids. But kids grow and I met someone. He was kind, loving and devoted. And then came texting. For almost five years I have begun every day and ended every day with a text...an I love you. All throughout the day we texted back and forth. He had a great sense of humor and made me laugh. Oh how I miss having laughter in y life. He rarely did facebook. When he left suddenly, unlike other times. the texting stopped. I tried for a week or so and he responded and I though we were getting back together. I found out there was another woman by a ckic of the mouse on facebook. Just today I went back to my step class for the first time. There was always a text from him. Now there is nothing. I can hardly stand to get out of bed...there will be no message. Facebook is where I got burned, so I am hesitant to go there...even though that is where so many of my friends are. I did at least take him out of the Facebook contacts, so I don't have to get surprise pop ups. I currently hate my phone and my computer. They wee our way of staying in touch and now there is nothing. Today was tough.
KaliLove Posted April 16, 2014 Posted April 16, 2014 Oh my..you've been through a lot. I'm so sorry. First things first, get the h*ll off Facebook. Definitely unfriend and block him, but I would take it a step further and say you should just put your account on hold for a while so you're not tempted to look. You will not see anything you like on there. It's good that you're getting out of bed. You'll have to force it for a while but eventually it'll become more and more natural. Do your kids live with you? If so, are you able to be there for them?
Author Marry bubbles Posted April 16, 2014 Author Posted April 16, 2014 I have one kid in college and one kid in high school. Weekends are now just aweful. kids are busy doing there own thing. I work odd hours so for now work is my only refuge. My guy and I were insperable until about Nov. and my business picked up. Between kids and work our schedules didn't meet up. We had always worked through these rough times, but this time he found her and she was available when I wasn't. Just heartbroken. Hoping I can meet someone exciting too one day. But for now, every day is an effort.
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