jgkhjgkh Posted February 3, 2005 Posted February 3, 2005 Hey, I recently made a post about my first date. http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t56037/? ...feel free to comment on it anyways...I was wonder what is a basic rule of thumb for calling a girl. I do no want to call too much because it shows neediness. I usually get this girl to call me when I am chatting with her online, but usually every other day or so...I give her a call. anyone help out please
Midwest guy Posted February 3, 2005 Posted February 3, 2005 Call as much as you like. The girl I like I called her once every other week. Its hard to hold the urge back though cause I miss her so much.
Stylin22 Posted February 3, 2005 Posted February 3, 2005 Well, the guy rule was to call 2-3 days after. But then I learned that all the girls know about this rule so after doing many research, most of my female pals say that you should call the next evening to let them know that you had a great time. Ask a few questions about her or her day and then get off without setting any plans. Don't call the next day. Call the next day and set plans for a day or two later. Keep the call short but interested in her type thing and let her know you are looking forward to seeing her then. They also told me that girls like a challenge, but don't over do it. Leave her something to not only think about, but look forward to. See, guys are about the basic sex, women are about the really good foreplay....
Stylin22 Posted February 3, 2005 Posted February 3, 2005 for some reason I was thinking a first date thing here, sorry...mix it up and don't fall into a routine. Same idea, good foreplay...
Author jgkhjgkh Posted February 3, 2005 Author Posted February 3, 2005 well i try to mix it up...sometimes i'll call her 2 days in a row...or i could go w/o calin her for 2 days...or maybe 1...i just keep it random now...i always change the amount of time i talk to her too....just to show that i am in control and that i have a life... date 2 was planned...so yeah...this saturday...and last time i talked to her was monday..so i'll either call thrusday or friday...depends on my mood
Author jgkhjgkh Posted February 3, 2005 Author Posted February 3, 2005 it'd be great if any ladies had input...
CurvyGurl Posted February 3, 2005 Posted February 3, 2005 Call when you feel like calling. If you're interested, show it. I've had guys that call every night at the same time... every week... every few days. Just some sort of regular and not routine contact to show you're interested. Infrequent enough so that you have plenty to talk about when you call ( if you call every day, not enough happens in that 24 hours to rate an interesting phone call), but frequent enough so that there is no doubt about your interest. If she starts not answering your calls, not returning your messages, stop calling. I'd say after twice... two mssed calls or two messages unreturned. Either she's playing the 'hard to get, make him want me' game, or she's not interested. In either case, stop calling. Also stop calling if she sounds bored or doesn't sound happy to hear from you. She's just taking your call to be polite. DO NOT WAIT THREE DAYS. That is the most ridiculous mind wrenching, numbing mind racking rule that some MAN made up! If you had a great time on a date and would like to see her again CALL! HER!
LynnStylesTN Posted February 3, 2005 Posted February 3, 2005 Originally posted by jgkhjgkh Hey, I recently made a post about my first date. http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t56037/? ...feel free to comment on it anyways...I was wonder what is a basic rule of thumb for calling a girl. I do no want to call too much because it shows neediness. I usually get this girl to call me when I am chatting with her online, but usually every other day or so...I give her a call. anyone help out please Just make sure you have something to say, the calls are for the purpose of relaying information. Call as often as you have somethingto say Guys have learned all to well how to communicate more effectively since the invention of chatrooms
Midwest guy Posted February 3, 2005 Posted February 3, 2005 Originally posted by LynnStylesTN Just make sure you have something to say, the calls are for the purpose of relaying information. Call as often as you have somethingto say Guys have learned all to well how to communicate more effectively since the invention of chatrooms So I should call the girl I like everyday when I have something to say?
LynnStylesTN Posted February 3, 2005 Posted February 3, 2005 Originally posted by Midwest guy So I should call the girl I like everyday when I have something to say? I am sorry ,but no guy has anything I need to hear everyday , ,, what I am saying is make you call matter at first. Have a point to make and then hang up ... Be in chrage
Midwest guy Posted February 5, 2005 Posted February 5, 2005 Originally posted by LynnStylesTN I am sorry ,but no guy has anything I need to hear everyday , ,, what I am saying is make you call matter at first. Have a point to make and then hang up ... Be in chrage Your right there. I need to be in charge when I call her.
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