Baby Blu Posted February 3, 2005 Posted February 3, 2005 I don't know if I should break up with my boyfriend or not. There is this guy who lives in Kansas and i live in iowa.I really love him and all. His name is Treant, hes a real sweetheart.But there is the problem.I have a boyfriend and i love him with all my heart in all but one day hes a real sweet heart and then he is a total dick. i dont know what his problem is. i was going to break up with him tonite when he comes over but when i was talkin to him on the phone i thought ahh mann i cant do it I cant break up with him. I feel like crying 4 ever.hmmm.I can talk to Trent(kansas)about almost anyhthing but jaosn(bf) is just i dunno ive known him 4 ever and i jusst cant get the love 4 him to go away, i dont want to break up with him but im sick of his attitude and how he acts somethims/most of the time.What do i do? Much Love Baby Blu
zilverenvlinder Posted February 3, 2005 Posted February 3, 2005 I heard something really interesting today. "Never leave the one you love for the one you like, because the one you like will leave you for the one they love." I'm assuming this is an internet love? If you don't want to be with Jason anymore, then break up with him. However, do not do it only to satisfy your uncommittal internet relationship. I'll say it again for emphasis: DO NOT break up with your REAL LIFE boyfriend FOR someone you meet on the internet. Or only talk to on the internet. The chances are HIGHLY unlikely that you will ever become involved in real life. Take Trent completely out of the picture and then you can ask yourself if you still want to be with Jason. <3 adria
Author Baby Blu Posted February 3, 2005 Author Posted February 3, 2005 No no no Trent isnt a internet guy ive known trent over a year. He is a real sweet heart. Jason might be coming over but i dunno wut im gonna do . Bany Blu
Stylin22 Posted February 3, 2005 Posted February 3, 2005 That's such a great quote...I'm gonna steal it from you...
morrigan Posted February 3, 2005 Posted February 3, 2005 You don't seem very happy about the relationship you're in--it sounds like it turns hot and cold. You can't change the person that he is or the way he acts--that's up to him. If he's abusive, either physically or verbally, ditch his a$$ ASAP. No one is going to give you a blue ribbon for breaking up with them. However, it's better to be honest that you don't feel the same way about them and end the relationship than continuing to string things along. As far as the other guy, if/when you break up with your boyfriend, have some time to yourself before jumping into a relationship with someone else.
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