lovers Posted April 16, 2014 Posted April 16, 2014 Me and my ex had a real bad break up, I havent talked to her in a long time where I mostly ignored her texts. before I grad college she sent me a text saying if we could meet up and I could help her study for this test (we have same class). I said no but if she has questions she could text me. She would call me with unknown phone number, but that has died down for awhile now. I havent spoken her since college which has been 6 months now. I still think about her from time to time, and I see her always on video chat app we used to share (i forgot to delete her from that). I log on too from time to time, I guess my life hasnt been so good lately and when things aren't looking up I feel the need to contact my ex and say hi. I see her on the video chat and tempted to just say Hi and how she is doing? I don't know if this would be a good idea or not cause I feel like I find this need only when I am depressed about my personal life atm in regards to career, love, etc... What to do...
Simon Phoenix Posted April 16, 2014 Posted April 16, 2014 Don't contact your ex. It's a bad idea, especially if the main times you get the idea is when you are feeling bad. That's the worst possible time to talk to her.
Author lovers Posted April 16, 2014 Author Posted April 16, 2014 yeah... i dont know feeling depressed about everything
Simon Phoenix Posted April 16, 2014 Posted April 16, 2014 yeah... i dont know feeling depressed about everything Well, contacting your ex would make it worse. Women are not attracted to depressed men who are not sure of themselves. Odds are you'd make a fool out of yourself and make things uncomfortable.
Author lovers Posted April 16, 2014 Author Posted April 16, 2014 yeah, how about in the future? When I get my life in order do you think it would be okay to ask her how she is doing and so on? She is dating a guy atm which sucks. Probably not the best time to contact her?
Simon Phoenix Posted April 16, 2014 Posted April 16, 2014 yeah, how about in the future? When I get my life in order do you think it would be okay to ask her how she is doing and so on? She is dating a guy atm which sucks. Probably not the best time to contact her? Not if you have romantic feelings for her. If you just want to be her buddy and don't care if she's dating anyone, then sure, but odds are you won't want to.
David87 Posted April 16, 2014 Posted April 16, 2014 Now it's not the time to do it. Especially if she has a bf, maybe in the future like you said but then I don't think you'll still want to contact her.
Author lovers Posted April 16, 2014 Author Posted April 16, 2014 i feel like im finding ways to initiate a convo with her. Like on my linkedin profile she checks up on my profile from time to time, I feel like just shooting her a message and saying you checking out my profile? or just say hi how have you been
Simon Phoenix Posted April 16, 2014 Posted April 16, 2014 i feel like im finding ways to initiate a convo with her. Like on my linkedin profile she checks up on my profile from time to time, I feel like just shooting her a message and saying you checking out my profile? or just say hi how have you been Please don't dude.
Author lovers Posted April 16, 2014 Author Posted April 16, 2014 yeah she was my comfort zone, someone I talked to when things werent going well in my life, losing that has really sucked cause I don't have anyone to talk to about certain things, not the same when you have a gf.
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