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Hi everybody,

 

My relationship with my ex ended about a month and a half ago. I've made it to a point where I can see the relationship for what it was and am indifferent towards her. I know she is seeing someone and I'm not affected by this, although I do have the occasional times where I look back on what could have been.

 

So recently, I was introduced to this girl through a mutual friend. She's a really great girl and I've explained that I'm not looking to rush anything, just take it slow and see where it goes. The thing is, something just doesn't feel right and I can't quite tell what it is. The excitement that was there with my ex when I met her doesn't seem to be there. I guess it's also important to note that I just lost my grandfather recently with whom I was very close with. Could I maybe be experiencing numbness from everything that has happened? Or maybe my brain is telling me I'm ready to see other girls again and in my heart I'm not? I'm sure I'm not the only one who's experienced something close to this or has been through this.

 

Thanks for reading.

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You're clearly not ready, dude.

 

Seriously, just enjoy being single for a bit. This is valuable time to do what YOU want to do without having a SO.

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You're clearly not ready, dude.

 

Seriously, just enjoy being single for a bit. This is valuable time to do what YOU want to do without having a SO.

 

^^^ What he said.

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