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she has completely 180'd on me :'(


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I'm not going to change my facebook relationship stayus because its nice to be seen as 'in a relationship

 

This proves what I am about to say next....

 

I need to clear up that her FB in a relationship status says and always has said in a relationship with me, i'm tagged on it. There is no-one else, that much i do know.

 

Dude FB relationship status is almost irrelevant, often fictional, total BS. The only one that verifiably means something is married to XXXXX (or if that reltionship is quite old at least a year or two). Even then plenty of people end up breaking up, dating others, then making up without changing their relationship status.

 

REMEMBER ONE THING. IN MANY CULTURES THERE IS STRONG PRESSURE FOR A WOMAN TO ALWAYS BE SERIOUSLY DATING SOMEONE. So, she does not need to face her singledom as long as she keeps you on the line. Plenty of young women will "date" a guy but not really feel much for him beyond perhaps that he's a decent lay. Of course they will never say this. These hypocrisies are not the fault of women. They are caused by a society which stigmatizes a woman's sexual needs.

 

With that out of the way.

 

 

You only "dated" this woman for a month. A month means nothing. A month isn't even a blip on the radar of life. IMHO it takes at least 1/2 the length of a relationship to get over that relationship.

 

Just leave it alone for two weeks. I'll bet that by next week you'll have almost forgotten about her.

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