Ranchero44 Posted April 15, 2014 Posted April 15, 2014 Hi~ I've known this guy a while. About 2 years. At some point a few months ago, we started sleeping together. We went out on some dates, too. We've always expressed how comfortable we are around each other. It has always seemed like we have a pretty good friendship. In a nutshell, he's just totally blown me off. I haven't texted or called him at all because he never responded to my last text, which was very friendly and benign. I completely get that this guy is probably not much into me, and that's why he completely ignores me. I've been around enough to know that many guys will just as soon avoid you, rather than have the dreaded "talk". It just feels like a really crappy way to deal with someone you were friends with. I can understand meeting someone online, or dating someone completely new, sleeping with them a few times, and then blowing them off (even though even THAT is questionable dating etiquette.) I just am having a hard time getting my head around completely and inexplicably blowing off someone you had a friendship with. I get it--he doesn't dig me the way I dig him and he probably doesn't know how to face me and be honest about it. Anything like this happen to anyone else? How did you get over the pain of a poorly-handled rejection so you could move on to greener pastures?
freetolove Posted April 15, 2014 Posted April 15, 2014 block all his calls/emails/text and delete him from you life etc
Author Ranchero44 Posted April 15, 2014 Author Posted April 15, 2014 block all his calls/emails/text and delete him from you life etc Well, that should be pretty easy because he never calls/texts/emails anyway LOL!
Noproblem Posted April 15, 2014 Posted April 15, 2014 You want people to treat you right! Stop being so nice and forgiving Go proclaim your life and own your rights Enough is enough! The new you will be the one who leaves and never look back. Ignore and go on.
Author Ranchero44 Posted April 15, 2014 Author Posted April 15, 2014 You want people to treat you right! Stop being so nice and forgiving Go proclaim your life and own your rights Enough is enough! The new you will be the one who leaves and never look back. Ignore and go on. Excellent advice! Thanks. I'm definitely not contacting him in any way, shape, or form, and am looking forward to being with someone who treats me with respect and dignity. 2
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