Amelie1980 Posted April 13, 2014 Posted April 13, 2014 I met a guy online back in November last year. He was lovely. We were very well suited personality wise, good chemistry, similar humour, we kissed on dates and it was lovely. he contacted me constantly. texting and emailing and messaging me several times a day. he flirted with me, told me he really liked me. If felt right to kiss me etc. he added me on Facebook too. I never had to prompt him to contact me. the only thing was he was worried about the distance between us. not that far but not round the corner. He then pulled it out of nowhere that he didn't want to continue. But the strange part is he said he still really likes me. Likes being in contact with me. doesn't want to lose touch. Can we be friends he says. Stay in touch as we get on so well. He also revealled he was dumped horribly by his on / off gf in July before we met. He thought he was ok but isn't ok. He is scared to get involved. Cannot explain why his feelings changed but he is fickle. He has also had some changes at work and he's not happy where he is. Ok fine. I was disappointed but ok. We didnt date long and didn't sleep together. I just decided to leave it alone and move on. Only he texted 5 days later asking how I was etc. I took my time but replied. He texted all over Christmas and new year. So the situation was that he would text now and again: usually every 10 days. I would reply. Sometimes I would initiate but not often. I accepted we were just casual friends / acquaintances. He could see from Facebook I was traveling and living my life. He randomly unfriended me on Facebook a week ago. I asked if I had done something to upset him. He said he was getting bothered by the frequency of contact and that it's greater than that between him and his close friends. It worried him....! I reminded him he wanted to be friends and he stayed in touch. I also told him not to flatter himself. He backed off and said just conclude here. So I thought the hell with it and blocked him on Facebook. But seriously. ...what the hell?! Did I miss something or did I just meet some manipulative idiot? Was I supposed to chase him when he dealt the friends card or what?
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