benkaye Posted April 13, 2014 Posted April 13, 2014 I was in a relationship with her for 1.5 years, we had the most incredible sexual chemistry, and she would always tell me "I can't imagine you being intimate with anybody else, the thought makes my stomach churn.." Fast forward a few months, we decided to mutually end the relationship as we became distant, but after a month apart I found out that she was seeing/sleeping with somebody after 3 weeks. That has now been going on for 2 months so I don't know whether it's a rebound or not, but regardless I CANNOT stop thinking about her being intimate with somebody else. The thought makes me feel so sick to my stomach I can cry. I can visualise every part of her body in my head (due to how close we were sexually) and the thought of another man being with her is just horrible and heartbreaking, How do I convince myself that it isn't important, and it really doesn't matter? The thought of her touching somebody else, and her having sex with somebody else is killing me...
iDrumKing Posted April 13, 2014 Posted April 13, 2014 When things like this start to happen, I literally have to FORCE myself to think about something else. Seriously. You might have to do that as well. If I'm ever cleaning my apartment and the thoughts start to run, I shift my thought's to "I'm gonna make this the cleanest apartment ever" just to keep my mind off the subject. So whatever you can think about to get your mind off of her being with another man, then do it. It's not easy, but possible. 2
bluegreen Posted April 13, 2014 Posted April 13, 2014 Oh wow you are really only sad about that part her sleeping with someone else. I guess love came second to that well you discovered something else along the side : she is big fat liar it takes people more then that to mourn loss of outfit they cared about. Find someone else who you will actually love and who will love you back 1
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