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Cousins's friend..how to ask if she'd set me up?


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So on FB I saw my 2nd cousin post pics of her and few friends that came up on newsfeed. One girl being one who lives in her town she's been friends with for awhile. They both live the town over from me. Pretty sure she's single and she's cute..would it come off a creepy finding a way to ask her about her friend? I don't talk/see this cousin often aside from family get togethers.

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Send her a message, hey your friend is cute is she single?

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Send her a message, hey your friend is cute is she single?

 

Possibly.

 

I just wish we'd have a family get together anytime soon bc i'd feel less awkward/creepy doing it in person.

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That's a good impulse to want to do it in person but this is a really done thing on Facebook now, I have several friends who exclusively meet women by trolling through their friend's lists and sending them messages speculatively. Right to them, not even through their friend.

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That's a good impulse to want to do it in person but this is a really done thing on Facebook now, I have several friends who exclusively meet women by trolling through their friend's lists and sending them messages speculatively. Right to them, not even through their friend.

True.

 

I guess I have nothing to lose, to just message my cousin, but still feels awkward lol.

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Then call your cousin & ask to hang out. While there, ask about the friend.

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What did she say?

 

I didn't ask yet lol.

 

 

Trying to think of a way too.

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I didn't ask yet lol.

 

 

Trying to think of a way too.

 

 

 

Don't get cute or creative. It will backfire & come off creepy. Just be straightforward with your cousin.

 

 

I saw the picture of you & Jane Doe you posted on FB. I think she's really cute. What's her deal? Would you introduce us sometime?

 

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