amanalone Posted April 13, 2014 Posted April 13, 2014 my girlfriend and i of a year and a half split up because she wants to "live life" i said i understood and tried to remain friends but its not working. the fact that she still calls me sweet names confuses me then teh fact we hang out and she leaves me to go hang out with other guys just tears me apart and makes me fight with her it sucks i have to go away
Author amanalone Posted April 13, 2014 Author Posted April 13, 2014 You go away by not contacting her anymore. we tried to remain friends
zen2475 Posted April 13, 2014 Posted April 13, 2014 Friendship post-break up is very hard to do because, as in your case, you still have feelings for the other person. As long as you have feelings for her, you will have pain as you watch her move on and be with other men. Right now, you should focus on healing and moving on. To do that, you need to remove the source of your pain: her. I know it's hard to do and painful, but consider the long term benefits over short term gratification. Hugs.
Author amanalone Posted April 13, 2014 Author Posted April 13, 2014 Friendship post-break up is very hard to do because, as in your case, you still have feelings for the other person. As long as you have feelings for her, you will have pain as you watch her move on and be with other men. Right now, you should focus on healing and moving on. To do that, you need to remove the source of your pain: her. I know it's hard to do and painful, but consider the long term benefits over short term gratification. Hugs. do you think she will miss me?
jstew2000 Posted April 13, 2014 Posted April 13, 2014 do you think she will miss me? Yes she probably does a little. I still ask the same about my ex. Mine is out partying too, living it up.. It hurts us man. You are not alone. We deserve girls that will not leave that easy because they need to "find" themselves. Really they are just selfish and only consider their own feelings. My ex talked me into taking her back twice, then ended up dumping me. Go figure.. Hang in there man. Just gotta be tough. Erase her from EVERYTHING. My mistake was checking her social media. Trust me, it will eat you alive. As hard as it may seem, you need to concentrate on yourself and worry about no one except YOU.
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