Newtothis2014 Posted April 13, 2014 Posted April 13, 2014 So today is 85 days no contact. From someone I spoke to every day for 5 years. Madness. I don't have the urge to break no contact. Oh, and he's unblocked me on Facebook. Ugh. My weekend has been hideous. All my plans fell through and my date cancelled last night. So I've had lots of time for my brain to think about you-know-who. My dreams have been saturated by him and his face. It's now Sunday and I feel utterly deflated and I want to cry but the tears just aren't there. Don't get me wrong, I feel 100x better than I did in January but I just wish I could forget him now. I'd pay for amnesia. Parts of me miss him so much. I have to inform him somehow that the cat insurance has been cancelled for the cat that's with him but I don't want to contact him or his family. I asked the insurance firm to put it into writing and they haven't. I might message his Mother if anything, but I REALLY don't want to. I'll call the insurance firm tomorrow and ask again. Told you it was boring.
Lifegoezon Posted April 13, 2014 Posted April 13, 2014 Good that you're feeling better but if you're still checking to see if he's unblocked you on Facebook you aren't strictly no contact. Which is why you can't stop thinking about him and no doubt now wondering why he's done that. Torturing yourself my friend. You should probably let him know about the insurance but I'm not sure contact with his mother is the best way. A very short business only message maybe? Quite likely to generate some response either way so brace yourself.
Author Newtothis2014 Posted April 13, 2014 Author Posted April 13, 2014 The only reason I noticed is that 'tagged photos of me' changed. I haven't looked. His page is private, as is mine, totally. Gosh, I really don't want to discuss the cat insurance. A part of me is tempted to just insure the bloody cat again so that I don't need to discuss anything with him.
Jay77098 Posted April 13, 2014 Posted April 13, 2014 Just mail him the notice about the cat insurance. Put the letter in a plain envelope with no return address and certainly no note from you about anything. You are doing the right thing with NC.
Author Newtothis2014 Posted April 18, 2014 Author Posted April 18, 2014 (edited) UPDATE: So, I blocked the ex to save myself hurt. Removed his family and family friends from my friends list. the insurance company sent me a letter confirming the pet insurance cancellation, which I fowardrd. I got emailed by my ex earlier this evening. The last I heard from him was an ignored text at the end of February: Seeing as you don't reply to me for whatever reason and have blocked me as much as you can, I have to email you. I received the insurance cancellation letter so ongoing your phone bill is £** It also said did I want him to contact the phone company to see if I can buy out the contract - as This way we can be 100% separate, as this is "obviously what you want. " -- Basically, my phone contract is in his name and comes up for renewal in October, which is what he means by the contract. What would you do if you got that email? I'd appreciate some honest replies here. I've been having a sh*t week , so here's my sh*tty cherry on top Edited April 18, 2014 by Newtothis2014
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