amaysngrace Posted May 2, 2014 Posted May 2, 2014 Raena I'm sorry you're in the situation that you're in. I don't know if your exH will make a habit of saying he will come for your son and then not show up but mine did and it use to make them feel awful. So I learned to always let them make plans with their friends or I planned small things to do even though it was going to be "dad's weekend" in the event that he was a no-show. I never let them know that they'd be seeing him in a few days or for the weekend or whatever pretty much until Friday of the weekends that he would make it clear that he'd be showing up. If my kid had a birthday party or something to go to it was up to Dad to take them. I stopped planning on him showing up because it disappointed my children and made them feel like crap plus then they had no plans so double crap. This is just something you may want to consider in the future if it comes to that. Chin up, huh? 1
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