rogermc Posted April 12, 2014 Posted April 12, 2014 Hello I need abit of advice.I have been with my wife for nearly 6yrs only married for 3yrs,we have a girl of 17months.Last year I picked up my wifes phone to ring mine to find a name in her frequents list of a man I didn't know so I asked her if she had been phoning or texting anyone,she said she hadn't it was all rumours from the factory we work at (she didn't know about the list).In the end we had a seven week break.....I came back home before xmas thinking everything was ok and it was for a while until I found out she been phoning and texting the same guy all the time.I found out on valentines day I asked her again she said she hadn't but it was another lie..week later same again..Last week I found a hidden sim card and a valentines card hidden in her knicker draw saying that he will always love her....I confronted her again and she said the card was from him..and then started blaming me for going to sleep in the spare room after we had the baby and I had pushed her away...I went in the spare room because she wanted the newborn in bed with her...She has told me that many lies I don't no what to do any advice anyone?
Damaged217 Posted April 14, 2014 Posted April 14, 2014 Not only did she lie to you multiple times and most likely cheat, but she accused you for being the reason behind her deception. Wow. If you were dating, I would say kick this one to the curb. But you are married and have a child together. I think you should seek marriage counseling. Only after dealing with a therapist, will you be able to decide whether you can move past this and learn to trust this woman again or if you should call it quits. Sorry you're going through this.
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