passion_flower Posted April 12, 2014 Posted April 12, 2014 The reason I ask is because I only see mine about once a week where he'll stay over on the weekend or occasionally sometimes in the week as well. This was ok in the early days but we have been going out 7 months now and it feels like he needs a break from me quite often. Like today for instance he said he wasn't coming up this weekend as he had to sort his flat out ready for an inspection and fill out a job application form which had a deadline of today. He rang me in the evening and said he'd finished all he had to do and talked about arranging to see me tomorrow morning to go to the local car boot which is a 2 minute walk from where I live. I suggested him staying over night to which he says he needed a break and food, even when I asked if I could pick him up at 10.30pm. I understand he's someone who needs a lot of time to himself but he's unemployed at the moment so has tons of time to himself during the week when I'm working. Also he doesn't text or answer emails I've sent very often but I've got used to that. It also feels like I have to do a lot of the chasing as he never says when he will see me next, it's usually me texting to meet up. I haven't said anything to him yet but I'm thinking I will bring it up next time I see him as it is bothering me a bit and feeling like it's a bit of a part time relationship. I'm also confused as he mentioned us moving in together but I can't see how when he needs so much time to himself. I don't think I'm being too demanding here.
DKT3 Posted April 13, 2014 Posted April 13, 2014 The reason I ask is because I only see mine about once a week where he'll stay over on the weekend or occasionally sometimes in the week as well. This was ok in the early days but we have been going out 7 months now and it feels like he needs a break from me quite often. Like today for instance he said he wasn't coming up this weekend as he had to sort his flat out ready for an inspection and fill out a job application form which had a deadline of today. He rang me in the evening and said he'd finished all he had to do and talked about arranging to see me tomorrow morning to go to the local car boot which is a 2 minute walk from where I live. I suggested him staying over night to which he says he needed a break and food, even when I asked if I could pick him up at 10.30pm. I understand he's someone who needs a lot of time to himself but he's unemployed at the moment so has tons of time to himself during the week when I'm working. Also he doesn't text or answer emails I've sent very often but I've got used to that. It also feels like I have to do a lot of the chasing as he never says when he will see me next, it's usually me texting to meet up. I haven't said anything to him yet but I'm thinking I will bring it up next time I see him as it is bothering me a bit and feeling like it's a bit of a part time relationship. I'm also confused as he mentioned us moving in together but I can't see how when he needs so much time to himself. I don't think I'm being too demanding here. If a man is really into you he will show it, make it happen. At 7 months if he isn't making an effort what would it be like in 7 years? NEXT
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