warrenorabbits Posted April 12, 2014 Posted April 12, 2014 Not pervy, mind you. Just ... not as "Hey I'm a really nice, easy-to-reject guy that smiles all the damn time!" as I usually am. I'm also really terrible at making smalltalk. Actually, I'm not bad at it as much as hyper-aware of how stale and awkward it really is. Any tips? Or is it really just an odds game where one woman's pervy is another woman's charming? Honestly, I've met most of the girls I've dated by latching on to something we obviously have in common (she's wearing a sweatshirt from Paris, for example, and I studied there a year). But what if there's nothing obvious you have in common except that she's cute and looking for a SO?
Ruby Slippers Posted April 12, 2014 Posted April 12, 2014 The easiest way to socialize with anybody is to ask questions about them. I sometimes find meeting new people and making small talk difficult or not fun. But last night I talked to a lot of people while I was out, and had a lot of fun. I was meeting cool people and feeling genuinely curious about them, so it happened naturally for me to ask lots of questions. It also helped that I was in an environment with people I have a lot in common with - most of us were musicians and music lovers, so that gave us a lot of common ground right away. 1
Imported Posted April 12, 2014 Posted April 12, 2014 If you see a girl sitting at a crowded bar, ask her if she doesn't mind you pushing her stool in. Cause she is kinda blocking the walkway.
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