brokeNlost Posted April 12, 2014 Posted April 12, 2014 (edited) Today it suddenly struck me, why does the thought of her being pregnant with some other guy hurts me? I accepted the relationship as being over and left her alone. I don't understand why thinking about it would even bother me. Why do I care so much? Is it because if she pregnant our paths will never crossed again or is it because we had always talked about having kids together and living as a family? My mind is my own worst enemy. Edited April 12, 2014 by brokeNlost
erklat Posted April 12, 2014 Posted April 12, 2014 we had always talked about having kids together and living as a family? I believe this is it. The white space where your plans together used to be hurts the most. This too shall pass my friend.
Craft81 Posted April 12, 2014 Posted April 12, 2014 Knowing the fact hypothetically that she is having those plans with someone else is really crushing to our self core... because those "plans" were something "we" were supposed to do.. not for her and "someone" else. Definitely natural to feel like that.
Author brokeNlost Posted April 12, 2014 Author Posted April 12, 2014 Thank you for your responses. I guess, I'm just bracing myself for the inevitable. Personally, if I deal with this hurt now, then when it actually happens the pain wouldn't be too excruciating to handle.
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