greenman77 Posted April 12, 2014 Posted April 12, 2014 There's this girl that I have known for a little over two months. I met her in one of my classes at college. Since we met she has basically been my study buddy. A couple of times a week we get together and study. Little by little I have developed some what of a crush on her but haven't acted on it and I don't think she has any idea that I am interested. I really haven't done or said anything to suggest that I am. The most I have done is not let her pay for lunch when we take study breaks lol. I am pretty terrible when it comes to women. I was going to hang out with her tonight and a few other people but that plan fell through. I am going to see her tomorrow because we are going to study. Sorry that I have rambled on so much. So I guess my question is would it be weird to just tell her I like her? And if I were to tell her how would I do that? I'm super shy and I have struggled to even attempt to ask her out. Will telling her that I like her put her in an unnecessary/uncomfortable corner? What do you guys think? Thanks.
preraph Posted April 12, 2014 Posted April 12, 2014 Don't TELL her. Show her or just ask if she'd like to go get coffee or something casual. Then if she goes, see how she acts, like whether she is getting more familiar or just holding the line as usual. Telling stuff sometimes comes off as awkward. Also, once you just have coffee, just see if she starts contacting you for no reason or if it's only about the studying. Good luck! 1
Author greenman77 Posted April 12, 2014 Author Posted April 12, 2014 @preraph I was going to hang out with her tonight. I wanted to see if she acted differently around me while doing something not related to studying. Unfortunately the plans fell through. How I invited her in the first place was really casual (just to see a movie with a few people) so it was easy. I have no idea how I would sum up the courage to ask her out on a real date though. Scares the **** out of me (probably fear or rejection among other things).. @Eau_Claire thanks for the suggestions. I might try one of those tomorrow and see how she reacts/replies. Thanks for the replies guys. I really appreciate them. I definitely won't tell her!
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