I called my crush today on the phone.

[daboyz]

Midwest :

 

Ur right She should of said Thanks but no thanks .....she messed up there. However she has been giving u plenty of signs that she is not interested in you. So do the right thing and move on and forget her ! If u keep on pushing her its only going to lead to problems !!

[Midwest guy]

Originally posted by daboyz

Midwest :

 

Ur right She should of said Thanks but no thanks .....she messed up there. However she has been giving u plenty of signs that she is not interested in you. So do the right thing and move on and forget her ! If u keep on pushing her its only going to lead to problems !!

 

So if she comesback to work this summer how do I deal with the urge then not to ask her out and such? Again when I call her shes nice to me and says she will call me. She didnt say no.

[daboyz]

If she comes back to work again talk to her casually..u dont have to ignore her........HOWEVER ......U dont have to ask her out again....she knows u want to take her out so dont ask for the 20th time !!!!

 

Just talk with her about anything other than taking her out !!

 

Most girls are nice to guys regardless if they like them or not......meaning MOST girls will be nice to u eventhough they have no intentions of EVER going out with you......Most girls arent mean by declining a guys invitation to go out.....From the sounds of it U make it sound like she should say "are u kidding me, go out with you .....lol" ....if thats what u want then by all means keep on asking her out everytime u see or talk with her .....cause if u keep on the pace u are going thats what is eventually gonna happen !!!

 

Try given her space and see what happens......it would be funny to not ask her to go out and just talk with her and then have her ask u out !!! Theres an idea !!!

 

DONT ASK HER OUT !! DONT BRING ANYTHING UP LIKE THAT.....NOT EVEN AS FRIENDS !!!

[Midwest guy]

Originally posted by daboyz

If she comes back to work again talk to her casually..u dont have to ignore her........HOWEVER ......U dont have to ask her out again....she knows u want to take her out so dont ask for the 20th time !!!!

 

Just talk with her about anything other than taking her out !!

 

Most girls are nice to guys regardless if they like them or not......meaning MOST girls will be nice to u eventhough they have no intentions of EVER going out with you......Most girls arent mean by declining a guys invitation to go out.....From the sounds of it U make it sound like she should say "are u kidding me, go out with you .....lol" ....if thats what u want then by all means keep on asking her out everytime u see or talk with her .....cause if u keep on the pace u are going thats what is eventually gonna happen !!!

 

Try given her space and see what happens......it would be funny to not ask her to go out and just talk with her and then have her ask u out !!! Theres an idea !!!

 

DONT ASK HER OUT !! DONT BRING ANYTHING UP LIKE THAT.....NOT EVEN AS FRIENDS !!!

 

Until the summer is it ok to call her maybe like once a month and ask her how things are going? I mean that wont look needy and would make it look like Im trying to be friendly. Shes always been a little flirty with me in the past though. Like I said before the last day of work she became more open and said Im too persistant with her by asking her out everyday. Cause when I asked her if she would call me back she said "I promise to call you" She didnt. She kept saying she would everyday though. If she didnt hold her end of the promise then itsnot all my fault is it? Shes a nice gal and sounded nice again when I called her the other day. I think the key word is I never said the word "date" I always said can we go out and have dinner or something. Looks like there is a little hope for hockey season as the meetings went late tonight with Bettman and the NHLPA and more on Friday so maybe they are working out a deal to save the season? I hope so cause if they do I could invite her to a weekend Blues game. Is that a good idea if I go to a hockey game and call her and tell her Im going to a hockey game and that I have a ticket and she would like to join me? When baseball season starts I can ask her too, but I dont like bb cause its a pain for parking downtown ect and I like hockey more.

[daboyz]

MIDWEST :

 

Im sorry but this is my last post cause obviously ur not gonna listen to anyone !!! U come on here for advice then turn right around and do the complete opposite of what we tell you !! so here goes my last advice to you !

 

 

DO NOT CALL HER AGAIN !!! LET HER BE THE ONE TO CALL YOU !!!! DONT

 

CALL HER FOR ANY REASON ........NONE !!!!!! NOT TO SEE HOW SHE IS DOING...

 

.........NOTHING !!!! DO NOT CALL HER !!!! IF SHE DOESNT CALL THEN MOVE ON

 

DO NOT CALL HER .....DO NOT CALL HER .....DO NOT CALL HER .....DO NOT CALL

 

HER....DO NOT CALL HER ......DO NOT CALL HER ...DO NOT CALL HER !!!!!!!!!!!

[Midwest guy]

If somehow there is a hockey season Im going to invite her to a game. other people on here suggested that before to me inviting her to a sports game.

[Proto]

Originally posted by Midwest guy

If somehow there is a hockey season Im going to invite her to a game. other people on here suggested that before to me inviting her to a sports game.

 

 

Dude...she doesn't like you, you have no chance. It's over. Finished. Done.

 

 

 

Now because you've been pestering her, she probably thinks that you're a loser, too. Way to go!

 

 

Don't be surprised if one of her guy friends threatens to kick your ass for pestering and stalking her. That's the only path I see this going down.

[Hund1976]

Do you know if she's a hockey fan? If she isn't taking her to a game for a first date would be a pretty bad idea.

 

If you still think there is a slight chance she would go out with you then here's what you should do. Tell her that you're coming up to her college and want to hang out with her. Then if she makes up some excuse not to hang out then you'll know she isn't into you and you can get over her and move on.

[alicia24]

If the girly was interested in you, she would blow off her friends at college for a weekend so she could spend the weekend with you. And the "I have a test" is just an excuse so she doesnt have to call you. Maybe she really does have a test, but if she was interested in you, I'm sure she could find 5 minutes out of study time to ring you if she really wanted to talk. SHE IS NOT INTERESTED!!!! MOVE ON!!! And you not getting all this hints seems to me like you may have a little obsession going on.

[midori]

Dear Midwestguy,

 

Occasionally we have to recognize threads in which further discourse is pointless, and in such cases, like this one, we feel that closing the discussion is in the best interests of the community. You're determined to persist with the mindset you've outlined here and in other threads regarding a girl that you like, despite receiving universal discouragement from the other members at LoveShack.org. Continuing the discourse further invites more harshly worded responses from those who are still willing to engage in any discussion of your situation. We don't want any thread to devolve into attacking posts from frustrated members.

 

It appears that you are quite determined to pursue this girl, and if so I think all the LoveShack.org community can do at this point is wish you good luck.