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last night my girlfriend called me at work and she asked if i got her txt and i told her no. she said "Well just call after work" i eneded up getting her text a few hours later, and when i called she didn't pick up so i told her "lunch will work for me" because she asked to go to lunch in the text

 

well today so far she has flaked. she texted me earlier but not about lunch

 

im pretty annoyed

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last night my girlfriend called me at work and she asked if i got her txt and i told her no. she said "Well just call after work" i eneded up getting her text a few hours later, and when i called she didn't pick up so i told her "lunch will work for me" because she asked to go to lunch in the text

 

well today so far she has flaked. she texted me earlier but not about lunch

 

im pretty annoyed

 

PLEASE PLEASE tell me I'm reading this wrong!!!!!!!!

 

She called you to tell you to call her after work about lunch?????!!!! Instead of asking you when she first called you???!?!?!??! OMG.

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last night my girlfriend called me at work and she asked if i got her txt and i told her no. she said "Well just call after work" i eneded up getting her text a few hours later, and when i called she didn't pick up so i told her "lunch will work for me" because she asked to go to lunch in the text

 

well today so far she has flaked. she texted me earlier but not about lunch

 

im pretty annoyed

 

I don't consider it a true flake because your line of communication was so disrupted and indirect. Though she should be a little more forthright today with you. Looks like this could be an instance where a little miscommunication snowballs, both parties get a little annoyed and *boom* before you know it a full blown game of spite develops over nothing.

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I don't consider it a true flake because your line of communication was so disrupted and indirect. Though she should be a little more forthright today with you. Looks like this could be an instance where a little miscommunication snowballs, both parties get a little annoyed and *boom* before you know it a full blown game of spite develops over nothing.

 

she texted me but i didnt get it until an hour after she sent it. afetr she texted me she called me , she didnt know i was at work. she asked if i had gotten her text and i said "no??" and she said oh, well call em after work. when she didnt pick up last night i just told her i gotten her text and i as ok with her plans

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she texted me but i didnt get it until an hour after she sent it. afetr she texted me she called me , she didnt know i was at work. she asked if i had gotten her text and i said "no??" and she said oh, well call em after work. when she didnt pick up last night i just told her i gotten her text and i as ok with her plans

 

I gotcha. Do your texts usually get delayed between each other? And like soccerrprp said before, why didn't she just ask you to lunch on the phone? lol.. but in the grandscheme of things, this is a minor spat. The type of thing where once you talk or see her today it'll be forgotten in minutes. How long have you two been dating?

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over a year. no just for some reason her text came late

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over a year. no just for some reason her text came late

 

Hmm.. Okay. Well anyways, if it was soooo important to her she should have brought it up to you on the phone.

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