LordVader Posted April 11, 2014 Posted April 11, 2014 There's this really beautiful girl I see at a bar often. I glance at her a bit too often sometimes, she's hard to resist, especially for someone as lonely as me. We have spoken a few times, just a sentence or 2 is all tho. I don't know anything about her yet. Then the other night, I walk around a corner, and she's turned my way, looking right at me with a blank expression. So I just looked right back into her eyes, also with a blank expression (usually I can't help but smile at her). It felt like 3-4 seconds which is amazing. Now I don't for a second think this girl would like me, she's like the popular supermodel type, with lots of friends, and all kinds of high status guys to choose from. I think she looked at me like that just to see what I would do. Maybe she thinks I have a crush on her or something??? (I can get 1 on her real easy just by her looks). Thats my guess, she wanted to see if I would look away. We have not spoken or made eye contact since.
slizl Posted April 11, 2014 Posted April 11, 2014 Either she is interested or not. It is possible that she is just looking at you to see if you are still looking at her. Every blue moon, I get a girl who is totally checking me out at a bar or something. Whether or not I am interested, I keep looking at her to see if she is still looking at me. Because I am a guy, I don't think it is creepy, but it does make me chuckle a little. You are either the creeper at the bar, or someone she is genuinely interested in. Only one way to find out...make the approach! 1
d0nnivain Posted April 11, 2014 Posted April 11, 2014 At this point if you keep staring at her but don't talk to her she is going to start to think that you are a creepy stalker. The worst she can say is No Thank you. I don't want a date but she could say yes, I'd love to. You have to ask.
Hello_is_it_me Posted April 11, 2014 Posted April 11, 2014 This really sounds like she's publicly challenging you to a staring contest. If you back down you'll lose your honor. Best thing to do is to keep staring at her. While holding the fixed stare, without blinking, sloooowly approach her until your faces are approximately 4 inches apart. Hold strong, you've almost got her..!
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